I can't stand the grandparents!! They ignore my daughter. What to do?

[Fullxbusymom]

You should have thought about this when you lied to them for 9 years and drug them through DNA testing so you can claim their dead son's social security benefits. Of course grandma is excited. Her first,true grandchild is being born

How do you know who this is or are you guessing?

Multiple posts about it being her dead boyfriends, brothers child and many many DNA tests and then approaching the parents after 8yrs like they would welcome this with open arms.

[Anonymous 1]

What's your relationship with the father of your daughter like? What's the grandmother's relationship with him like? What were the circumstances around you getting pregnant? And how old is your daughter?

My daughter's dad is not involved since drugs tend to rule his life. He has only met her once. His mother claims to miss her son and wishes that he would get his life together.
Since he left me while I was pregnant, I decided to not contact his parents until my daughter was older. Of course they wanted a paternity test and luckily he agreed to having one done. He was proven to be the dad. Well nothing has changed. They just don't seem interested at all. As for your other questions, my daughter's father and I really didn't know each other that well. TBH, I had only met him twice. My daughter is eight.

[Anonymous 1]

You should have thought about this when you lied to them for 9 years and drug them through DNA testing so you can claim their dead son's social security benefits. Of course grandma is excited. Her first,true grandchild is being born

How do you know who this is or are you guessing?

Multiple posts about it being her dead boyfriends, brothers child and many many DNA tests and then approaching the parents after 8yrs like they would welcome this with open arms.

So you're assuming that I'm the same woman? No! I'm not her.

[Anonymous 3]

You should have thought about this when you lied to them for 9 years and drug them through DNA testing so you can claim their dead son's social security benefits. Of course grandma is excited. Her first,true grandchild is being born

How do you know who this is or are you guessing?

Multiple posts about it being her dead boyfriends, brothers child and many many DNA tests and then approaching the parents after 8yrs like they would welcome this with open arms.

Is this dead bio dad and uncle dad mom?

[Anonymous 1]

You should have thought about this when you lied to them for 9 years and drug them through DNA testing so you can claim their dead son's social security benefits. Of course grandma is excited. Her first,true grandchild is being born

Excuse me but I'm not that woman. My child did have a paternity test done and it was proven that he was the father. You're wrong..her first grandchild is MY daughter. Again...I'm not who you're thinking.

[Anonymous 1]

She isn't really your daughters grandparent and really wants nothing to do with the shit show that you have created.

Really? Paternity test says that she is!!

[MistressMonster]

People like that are horrible. I would ignore them completely, stop sending pics and if they send gift cards...use them to buy your dd whatever she wants

It's the uncle daddy saga.

[Sassy762]

** runs back to change my reply **

People like that are horrible. I would ignore them completely, stop sending pics and if they send gift cards...use them to buy your dd whatever she wants

It's the uncle daddy saga.

[Anonymous 4]

If they haven't met your daughter in 8 years, then that warm family thing you hoped for isn't going to happen. Bottom line, they don't want to be involved. You need to accept that, you don't have to like it, but you do need to accept it. You need to stop stalking on facebook, you need to put distance between what ever you thought was going to happen, and reality. The reality is they don't want to be involved with you or your daughter. Simply be the best parent you can be for your child.

[Anonymous 5]

I don't think I would continue sending pics through messenger. It seems they have you "on the down low" and don't want people to know that they even message with you. Unless you feel that YOU are getting something positive out of this, I would not continue. Since your DD has never met them, I would just be done.