Thanksgiving is ruined

[Catdaughter20]

I hope you're going to feed them Supper.

[mater-three]

Whole night is ruined not only is Thanksgiving cancelled I had the whole night planned we were going to decorate the house for Christmas and put up the Christmas tree...i wish I could go to dollar tree and get a refund on all these decorations I picked up yesterday

Christmas is also cancelled .. I'm not putting in effort. I was going to buy ds a play station 5 i actually had plans to go all over town at all the different gamestops until I found one ... That's off the table now. I'm not spending $500 on a kid that hit me. I had gifts for dd in my Amazon cart i may still get her gifts but its not much i was going to shop around for dd too...I don't want to do anything at all anymore might just give them $100 each and say that's all ya getting

So upsetting. I don't have much as it is and for my kids to beat eachother like that for no good reason just hurts my soul. Life just sucks.

If Christmas is cancelled, why get them anything?

[Kookookrazy]

I’m sorry but you truly need some parenting classes. Your children need therapy and anger management. You will see that as mean but it’s truth.

You don’t hit your kids yet your response was to get a belt and proceed to hit them? I’m sorry how does one jump from no corporal punishment to punishment with an object? Sorry doesn’t add up.

Next time this happens and it will, call the police. Get the lid on a juvenile lock up.

As for Christmas—shakes my head. You have no job, begged for $$ for a tv and yet you are buying $500 PlayStations. Damn, I should quit my job and go on welfare.

Dd is already in therapy.Ds refuses therapy I already tried with him I took him to appointments filed out questionaires etc and he refused.He insisted he's not depressed ,not angry etc.He refused to talk there is nothing I can do on that front.

Its too late for parenting classes dd is almost 18 she's an honor roll student ,obedient child she is going off to university in a few months .Ds is more behind intellectually but he is also doing very well in school and he usually is not a problem at home he does what i ask/say idk what happened today and what made him snap but this is an outlier ...this is not his usual behavior.

Ds is 15 what could a parenting class teach me? My kids are almost adults.

I dont think im a great parent but im not the worst either.

[Kookookrazy]

I hope you're going to feed them Supper.

There are hot pockets in the freezer.

I put the turkey wings back in the fridge ill cook them tomorrow.I told dd why Im not cooking and she is okay with it...Not cooking is to punish ds ...Ds loves when I cook and he been looking forward to it all day but im no longer cooking .

He can have a hot pocket and go to bed.

I may get up later and go to the casino later on tonight.I can treat myself to TGI Fridays or some other casino restaurant that's open .I had plans on taking both kids out to breakfast tomorrow and thats not happening I will take dd..ds can eat at home.

[Kookookrazy]

Whole night is ruined not only is Thanksgiving cancelled I had the whole night planned we were going to decorate the house for Christmas and put up the Christmas tree...i wish I could go to dollar tree and get a refund on all these decorations I picked up yesterday

Christmas is also cancelled .. I'm not putting in effort. I was going to buy ds a play station 5 i actually had plans to go all over town at all the different gamestops until I found one ... That's off the table now. I'm not spending $500 on a kid that hit me. I had gifts for dd in my Amazon cart i may still get her gifts but its not much i was going to shop around for dd too...I don't want to do anything at all anymore might just give them $100 each and say that's all ya getting

So upsetting. I don't have much as it is and for my kids to beat eachother like that for no good reason just hurts my soul. Life just sucks.

If Christmas is cancelled, why get them anything?

I meant christmas on a grander scale like them waking up to gifts under the tree and opening presents etc...giving them $100 each is bare minimum .It's basically nothing.I may not cancel Dd's christmas she's a good girl she gets great grades and is very obedient and sweet.Ds ps5 is cancelled indefinetly.

[Kookookrazy]

Dd has therapy tomorrow so im glad she will be able to talk to her therapist tomorrow and afterwards ill take her out to breakfast her brother traumatized her when i walked in her room she jumped she said she thought it was her brother.Im going to have her sleep in my room tonight if she's scared

[Anonymous 3]

I’m sorry but you truly need some parenting classes. Your children need therapy and anger management. You will see that as mean but it’s truth.

You don’t hit your kids yet your response was to get a belt and proceed to hit them? I’m sorry how does one jump from no corporal punishment to punishment with an object? Sorry doesn’t add up.

Next time this happens and it will, call the police. Get the lid on a juvenile lock up.

As for Christmas—shakes my head. You have no job, begged for $$ for a tv and yet you are buying $500 PlayStations. Damn, I should quit my job and go on welfare.

Dd is already in therapy.Ds refuses therapy I already tried with him I took him to appointments filed out questionaires etc and he refused.He insisted he's not depressed ,not angry etc.He refused to talk there is nothing I can do on that front.

Its too late for parenting classes dd is almost 18 she's an honor roll student ,obedient child she is going off to university in a few months .Ds is more behind intellectually but he is also doing very well in school and he usually is not a problem at home he does what i ask/say idk what happened today and what made him snap but this is an outlier ...this is not his usual behavior.

Ds is 15 what could a parenting class teach me? My kids are almost adults.

I dont think im a great parent but im not the worst either.

My oldest refused therapy too after his dad died so i understand not forcing him. But my son never laid a hand on me. I can’t remember the last time my kids physically fought. Not since they were young. Idk who started it but ds overreacted. And i thought he was going through that whole lymph node thing. I’d insist he get anger management if i had to drag him in there. Or he can do online. I did online videos to control my anger. With me they worked but your son might need an online counselor. I wouldn’t take away Christmas (although you shouldn’t spend a lot of money) but he’d have to work with me. If he said nothing to the counselor idc he can listen. Tell him it’s not punishment it’s so he can handle himself. Anger management.

[KendallsMom]

I hope you're going to feed them Supper.

There are hot pockets in the freezer.

I put the turkey wings back in the fridge ill cook them tomorrow.I told dd why Im not cooking and she is okay with it...Not cooking is to punish ds ...Ds loves when I cook and he been looking forward to it all day but im no longer cooking .

He can have a hot pocket and go to bed.

I may get up later and go to the casino later on tonight.I can treat myself to TGI Fridays or some other casino restaurant that's open .I had plans on taking both kids out to breakfast tomorrow and thats not happening I will take dd..ds can eat at home.

You think it's wise to leave those two alone together?

[Anonymous 2]

The odds of your children moving out and living on their own is slim to none. Let’s be honest. Community college isn’t “university”. Therefore, parenting classes for you would be helpful. You would learn how to handle every day behaviors and these outbursts both.

As for your later comment of “going to treat yourself”. Oh my lord…you are an idiot. You don’t leave two colitis children home alone while you go gamble and stuff your face. Finally, what are you treating yourself for? Did you get a job? Did you enroll in school? What? A treat is a once I’m a whole, not an “oh I’m bored“

I’m sorry but you truly need some parenting classes. Your children need therapy and anger management. You will see that as mean but it’s truth.

You don’t hit your kids yet your response was to get a belt and proceed to hit them? I’m sorry how does one jump from no corporal punishment to punishment with an object? Sorry doesn’t add up.

Next time this happens and it will, call the police. Get the lid on a juvenile lock up.

As for Christmas—shakes my head. You have no job, begged for $$ for a tv and yet you are buying $500 PlayStations. Damn, I should quit my job and go on welfare.

Dd is already in therapy.Ds refuses therapy I already tried with him I took him to appointments filed out questionaires etc and he refused.He insisted he's not depressed ,not angry etc.He refused to talk there is nothing I can do on that front.

Its too late for parenting classes dd is almost 18 she's an honor roll student ,obedient child she is going off to university in a few months .Ds is more behind intellectually but he is also doing very well in school and he usually is not a problem at home he does what i ask/say idk what happened today and what made him snap but this is an outlier ...this is not his usual behavior.

Ds is 15 what could a parenting class teach me? My kids are almost adults.

I dont think im a great parent but im not the worst either.

[Catdaughter20]

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I hope you're going to feed them Supper.
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There are hot pockets in the freezer.

I put the turkey wings back in the fridge ill cook them tomorrow.I told dd why Im not cooking and she is okay with it...Not cooking is to punish ds ...Ds loves when I cook and he been looking forward to it all day but im no longer cooking .

He can have a hot pocket and go to bed.

I may get up later and go to the casino later on tonight.I can treat myself to TGI Fridays or some other casino restaurant that's open .I had plans on taking both kids out to breakfast tomorrow and thats not happening I will take dd..ds can eat at home.
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So your kids beat the f**k out of each but you're going out, why fo you feel the need to gamble? Do you have an addiction?