He lives in a hotspot. He is also working. Usually the kids go to summer camp but that is closed this year. They would have to go to a random in home daycare with a bunch of other kids.
I am also not putting them on an airplane right now. I am not going to drive them there either. My ex doesn't drive or have a car so he can't come get them.
He said I have to send them or he would take them to court. I told him to go ahead and do that. I will accept any consequences that come my way. I need to put my kids and their safety first.
Just needed to vent a lil
I don't care if I will be held in contempt... I'm not sending my kids to their dad this summer.
Sad to have such young kids and already be divorced and Dad lives states away. Certainly not ideal.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat May 23, 2020 8:55 am He lives in a hotspot. He is also working. Usually the kids go to summer camp but that is closed this year. They would have to go to a random in home daycare with a bunch of other kids.
I am also not putting them on an airplane right now. I am not going to drive them there either. My ex doesn't drive or have a car so he can't come get them.
He said I have to send them or he would take them to court. I told him to go ahead and do that. I will accept any consequences that come my way. I need to put my kids and their safety first.
Just needed to vent a lil
It is sad and not ideal. I will agree with that. It wasn't my choice to have him move away.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat May 23, 2020 9:05 amSad to have such young kids and already be divorced and Dad lives states away. Certainly not ideal.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat May 23, 2020 8:55 am He lives in a hotspot. He is also working. Usually the kids go to summer camp but that is closed this year. They would have to go to a random in home daycare with a bunch of other kids.
I am also not putting them on an airplane right now. I am not going to drive them there either. My ex doesn't drive or have a car so he can't come get them.
He said I have to send them or he would take them to court. I told him to go ahead and do that. I will accept any consequences that come my way. I need to put my kids and their safety first.
Just needed to vent a lil
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That sucks for everyone involved. Is he not able to get time off to come visit? Maybe his job would flex a little with what's going on?
One more bitter selfish pathetic angry exwife. Hopefully your kids will hate you for this the rest of their live and maybe even see you as toxic and never talk to you again.
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He’s in for a long road with you....my kids, unless immaculate conception happened, they aren’t just yours and he has the right to make decisions just as much as you, even if you don’t agree.
I’ve seen many a parent dig in their heels, even if why is right, and they’ve lost. Some actually lost custody of the kids,
I’ve seen many a parent dig in their heels, even if why is right, and they’ve lost. Some actually lost custody of the kids,
I feel for this guy with you as gatekeeper to his own kids. Its gonna be a long 18 years for all involved at this rate.
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Good luck. My ex’s other ex tried to keep their kid away bc of covid. Not only did she have to make up the time immediately she had to pay his lawyer and court fees.