I don't care if I will be held in contempt... I'm not sending my kids to their dad this summer.

[Anonymous 6]

Grow the f**k up and put on your big girl panties.

[Anonymous 2]

Grow the f**k up and put on your big girl panties.

Put on her panties for what exactly?

[Pjmm]

I guess this is going to replace the typical bm vs sm posts. I mean in CM there always was these sort of broken summer visitation posts but this is a new twist. I'm sure my kids wish they could see their father. Were he alive I'd probably let them go even though it's a hotbed where he's at. But they wouldn't have to get on a plane. That part would worry me.

[stilltfez]

you forgot to add in the part where he's a drug addict, an alcoholic, or there's no court order saying they have to go anyway so ...

[stilltfez]

you forgot to add in the part where he's a drug addict, an alcoholic, or there's no court order saying they have to go anyway so ...

[WickedPissah]

You both think you're in the right.

A judge will decide.

[Anonymous 7]

I find it interesting how the people i know in real life in a long distance bitter divorce custody situation are just doing the right thing and staying home. Sure they bitch about it but accept the fact this is safest for the kids. Isn’t that what good parenting is about - what’s best for the kids? So sad there have been so many posts and replies on here with parents just thinking about themselves and their “rights”.

[Deleted User 1577]

How convenient the ex doesn’t drive or have a car.

[lauren08]

I wouldn't send my kids anywhere right now either. I don't think any parent with their children's best interest at heart would demand it.

This. Good parents will do what’s best for the kids.

[Anonymous 8]

One more bitter selfish pathetic angry exwife. Hopefully your kids will hate you for this the rest of their live and maybe even see you as toxic and never talk to you again.

how is she selfish, bitter or angry. she is protecting her children. and if dad gave two shits about his kids he would understand.