We found out SD was secretly married

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Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:41 am She says it was to get money for college. The only reason we found out is because she tried to secretly get divorced but ended up needing help from DH. Her husband/roommate doesn't want to end things amicably because they had some drama while living together. He's refusing to sign the papers.

BM doesn't know and SD doesn't want her to know. The whole situation is so fucked up. SD never needed money for school in the first place so I'm wondering if their was more to it than she is saying.

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She's an adult. She'll figure it out on her own.
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I wouldn't help in the slightest, sorry. You're adult enough to get married, you're adult enough to deal with the consequences of your poor decisions on your own.
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People make mistakes. Big deal. Emphasize with her , support her and don't bring it up ever again. She has zero obligation to ever tell anyone if she chooses not to. Everyone needs to respect that.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:41 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:39 am
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:35 am
She is paying for it herself. She just wants to find a good one.
Bullshit. SD knows how to use Google and her phone
DH already pointed her in the right direction. Google and a phone is not going to tell you who the actual best is.
So your husband has some inside track on good divorce attorneys? That's different.
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wildflowers25 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 7:52 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:41 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:39 am

Bullshit. SD knows how to use Google and her phone
DH already pointed her in the right direction. Google and a phone is not going to tell you who the actual best is.
So your husband has some inside track on good divorce attorneys? That's different.
Yes. My husband is a lawyer. He doesn't do divorces himself but he knows who is good at it.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 8:06 pm
wildflowers25 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 7:52 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:41 am

DH already pointed her in the right direction. Google and a phone is not going to tell you who the actual best is.
So your husband has some inside track on good divorce attorneys? That's different.
Yes. My husband is a lawyer. He doesn't do divorces himself but he knows who is good at it.
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Good luck to her. I hope she gets out of this and puts this all behind her.
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I’m sure she will figure it out.
A lot of secret marriages on this site. Another member has a daughter that secretly married.
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Sigh...I guess we're stepping it up from getting a sugar daddy to pay for college.
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