You should on your dh time with the kids.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 11:06 pmTaking them too and from school is different than leaving working in the middle of the day to take them to BMMistressMonster wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:57 pm I never had problems taking Kiddo and Kidlet to school. Or picking them up for that matter. Maybe I'm just weird.
I do take them and pick them up from school sometimes. Most of the time DH does it. That isn't what this post is about.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 1:25 pmYou should on your dh time with the kids.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 11:06 pmTaking them too and from school is different than leaving working in the middle of the day to take them to BMMistressMonster wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:57 pm I never had problems taking Kiddo and Kidlet to school. Or picking them up for that matter. Maybe I'm just weird.
Aren't you and dh a team?
Slow your role there. I was my step kids mother. Bio mom signed away her rights. Wanted nothing to do with them and came straight out and told my bonus daughter she was disowning her.Anonymous 11 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 11:29 amNo one thinks that. I know a lot of women who think the new wife, girlfriend, bed buddy, need to back off and not pretend to be anything to children who aren't theirs just because they are sleeping with the children's dad.Anonymous 9 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 6:51 am Most women on here think step parent are ATM machines that are to bow down and do the bidding of the natural parents.
The children have parents already.
If they're with their dad that week, it's up to you and him to figure it out since you are both a team.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 1:47 pmI do take them and pick them up from school sometimes. Most of the time, DH does it. That isn't what this post is about.
Why should she take off work to pick up the sk when bio mom can do it. She should lose money because of bio mom?Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:19 pm You are now part of their village and should have no issues helping out when possible. I could never marry someone like you that feels kids aren't part of the deal. I feel really bad for the kids
Guess her and her dh aren't a team, but she says him and bm are.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:19 pm You are now part of their village and should have no issues helping out when possible. I could never marry someone like you that feels kids aren't part of the deal. I feel really bad for the kids
It's her job as a parent.Anonymous 8 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:35 pmWhy should she take off work to pick up the sk when bio mom can do it. She should lose money because of bio mom?Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:19 pm You are now part of their village and should have no issues helping out when possible. I could never marry someone like you that feels kids aren't part of the deal. I feel really bad for the kids
I said when possibleAnonymous 8 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:35 pmWhy should she take off work to pick up the sk when bio mom can do it. She should lose money because of bio mom?Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 2:19 pm You are now part of their village and should have no issues helping out when possible. I could never marry someone like you that feels kids aren't part of the deal. I feel really bad for the kids
. But i also would never make the kids feel like they are a burden by not going to get them even if it was inconvenient. This can't possibly happen that much that she would be losing massive amounts of money. Imo it's everyone's job to take care of the kids no matter what. You don't have to agree with me though and that's ok.
