Is she being too picky or is it having standards?

[Anonymous 1]

I know I should mind my own business. But my sis doesn’t want to be single anymore but her list of needs and deal breakers could fill a room. I think she needs to relax a little

[Anonymous 2]

I know I should mind my own business. But my sis doesn’t want to be single anymore but her list of needs and deal breakers could fill a room. I think she needs to relax a little

Mind your own business. My list of deal breakers could fill an entire house but they are MY deal breakers and I dont need anyones permission to have them.

[That'swhatshesaid]

Mind your own business. It's her choice to decide what she wants in a relationship, not yours.

[Momto2boys973]

I guess it depends on what those deal breakers are, but ultimately it’s what she wants and hopefully it’ll work out for her. If some of her deal breakers are frankly ridiculous, maybe she'll realize that she needs to lighten up a bit.

[Anonymom*23/6/364]

Is she over 18?
If so, I think YOU need to 'relax a little'.

[Ladyiq]

Nothing wrong with standards if she is bringing the same qualities to the relationship. She can't be asking for a fit, rich, handsome guy if she is fat, poor, and ugly...just saying.

[ReadingRainbow]

I think you should be extremely picky when it comes to dating someone or getting married.

[Inmybizz]

Both.

[leadfoot40]

I guess that would depend on what they are. If I ever dated again my list would be pretty long.

[Deleted User 670]

We all have standards and lists. Sometimes though you meet the right guy and while he doesn't meet every criterion, he does with the important ones.