What's worse for you and yes pick only one possible trigger

[mater-three]

I can’t answer this.

[Inmybizz]

Beat

[agander2017]

The beating hurt more physically, but the cheating destroyed me mentally.

Either way, this should really have a trigger warning on it...

[Anonymous 7]

Being beaten

[7byher]

Going back/staying with a cheater or an abuser. Thats what is worst.

[Anonymous 8]

I can take a hit or three so cheating would be worse. I grew up being abused so if my dh ever hit me it wouldnt be as painful as cheating. My husband would never do either though.

[bmw29]

Cheating because if he tried beating me I'm pretty sure I could get off on self defense after I murdered his ass.

[Anonymous 9]

Well, my ex was emotionally abusive and cheated on me. I'll take the cheating over the abuse. I got over the cheating years ago. I'm still in therapy getting over the abuse.

[Gorilla_Mama]

Getting beat. What an odd question. It certainly doesn’t make cheating okay bc “it could be worse”

[Anonymous 1]

The beating hurt more physically, but the cheating destroyed me mentally.

Either way, this should really have a trigger warning on it...

Sorry, I'll add that to the title.