What made you run for the hills

[RealisticBeauty]

After going on a date or a few dates with someone? I was reading the post about a S*x offender and it got me thinking. I hit it off really well with a guy years ago. We would talk on the phone for hours. I didn't immediately tell him I had kids. I told him right after we started talking about going on a date. He got very quiet when I mentioned it to him and he made up an excuse to get off the phone. The next morning I received a long message from him explaining that he was a S*x offender. His crime was child porn. I never contacted him again.

[Deleted User 172]

At least he was honest with you. He gets points for that even if you never heard from him again.

Getting too close too fast makes me run. Also games.

This made me run pretty fast.

[agander2017]

I was on a date with someone. It was our second date. He drank a little too much, and started telling me all of the things he would love to do to me and our waitress if she would join us. I dropped him off at home, and never talked to him again.

[agander2017]

At least he was honest with you. He gets points for that even if you never heard from him again.

Getting too close too fast makes me run. Also games.

This made me run pretty fast.


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Well, he was determined to get you to talk to him lol.

[Ladyiq]

He took me to meet his family on the first date and made it seem as if we were an established couple. I ended it. It was too much.

[Deleted User 172]

At least he was honest with you. He gets points for that even if you never heard from him again.

Getting too close too fast makes me run. Also games.

This made me run pretty fast.


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Well, he was determined to get you to talk to him lol.

Yup. I blocked him after that. He found me on a dating site a week later and texted me there too. Blocked him there too. Lmao.

[mater-three]

I’ll admit I’m not very experienced in the dating department. I only ran when I dated a really nice guy who was very sweet and treated me like a queen. And then, I went to his house and met his family. Roaches climbing on the couch, open cans of molded food on the counter, the toilet was black, there wasn’t any room to walk, it was may and there was a Christmas tree up in the living room which was not that big deal until I saw the mouse droppings under it..I could go on and on but basically it looked like one of those hoarder houses you see on tv. He wasn’t ashamed and acted as if everyone lives like that. I was very young and I broke it off with him a few days later. I couldn’t be with someone who lives like that..right or wrong.

[RealisticBeauty]

At least he was honest with you. He gets points for that even if you never heard from him again.

Getting too close too fast makes me run. Also games.

This made me run pretty fast.


Screenshot_20190325-142130_Messages.jpg

Well, he was determined to get you to talk to him lol.

Yup. I blocked him after that. He found me on a dating site a week later and texted me there too. Blocked him there too. Lmao.

Omg so many red flags lol. Shit like that makes me run too.

[RealisticBeauty]

I’ll admit I’m not very experienced in the dating department. I only ran when I dated a really nice guy who was very sweet and treated me like a queen. And then, I went to his house and met his family. Roaches climbing on the couch, open cans of molded food on the counter, the toilet was black, there wasn’t any room to walk, it was may and there was a Christmas tree up in the living room which was not that big deal until I saw the mouse droppings under it..I could go on and on but basically it looked like one of those hoarder houses you see on tv. He wasn’t ashamed and acted as if everyone lives like that. I was very young and I broke it off with him a few days later. I couldn’t be with someone who lives like that..right or wrong.

Yuck! Stuff like that is sometimes past down from generation to generation. It is their normal.

[RealisticBeauty]

I was on a date with someone. It was our second date. He drank a little too much, and started telling me all of the things he would love to do to me and our waitress if she would join us. I dropped him off at home, and never talked to him again.

Did he try to contact you? I went on a similar date but the guy drove himself home and landed in jail for a DUI. He had the nerve to call me when he got out.