I know it's too soon to..

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 12:20 pm

way too soon

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:17 pm

sounds like you are trying to get some poor innocent guy killed. You don't have the sense God gave a goose.

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:27 pm

Godstar wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2019 9:51 am
EarlGrayHot wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2019 9:48 am If you are really afraid of your husband then get a restraining order now.
He's in jail and there is a stay away order in place. Still, those things never stop him from finding us.

So, I will check into other resources with the Women's Shelter.

You do realize that a divorce is not an overnight process. In many states you have to be seperated for a year before you ever see a judge.....Add in children and assets you could be looking at 18 months to a year. And thats if he doesnt contest it

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:28 pm

You need Dr Phil, not David, not Del, and definitely not that ridiculous Trumpence foolishness.

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:39 pm

A friend and a support group are what you need. A boyfriend is not. You have a long road ahead of you to get through to the other side of almost 20 years of abuse. Work hard on yourself and your recovery. Concentrate on you and your young kids right now.

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 3:10 pm

Anonymous 6 wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:17 pm sounds like you are trying to get some poor innocent guy killed. You don't have the sense God gave a goose.

Lol, my Mom just said that about someone the other day.

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 4:11 pm

You found a kind, compassionate soul, be grateful for that, and do not attempt more, not now

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 4:46 pm

Best wishes!

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 6:57 pm

Anonymous 5 wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2019 12:09 pm Do you and your soon to be ex have kids together? If so, a divorce can take some time. Most states have a waiting period before it can be finalized, if minor children are involved. I just went through this myself. Filed for divorced from my husband of 16 years. Minimum 6 months wwiting period until it was finalized

Not with abuse, and when he is in jail. I can have it now.

Unread post Mon Jul 22, 2019 6:58 pm

pinkbutterfly66 wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2019 2:39 pm A friend and a support group are what you need. A boyfriend is not. You have a long road ahead of you to get through to the other side of almost 20 years of abuse. Work hard on yourself and your recovery. Concentrate on you and your young kids right now.

I will see a therapist Thursday..

The Women's Shelter has support groups Tuesday and Thursday..

I'm going tomorrow.

I know it's too soon to..

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