She won't tell me and neither will the school. I thought she was leading to go back to the dorms in a few weeks
I felt a weird vibe when I started talking about the tuition payment. She said she would handle it herself. She just wanted me to hand over $19,000 to her. When I told her I would just do it online like last time she freaked out
She admitted to being expelled. I didn't even want to believe her at first until she showed me part of the official email she got from the school. She can go back in a year after having a hearing but she doesn't want to
She keeps saying she did nothing wrong and they are overreacting which I doubt is the case
So she has been home lying about school and how her classes are and being excited to go back. She said her plan was to take the money for school and get her own place and pretend like she was still taking classes
I'm not even sure how to handle this situation or what to do. She has no job and kicking her out doesn't seem like a good option with how hot it is. The shelters are full and she doesn't have many friends here
I'm in shock
DD was expelled and I don't know why
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time to change up your plans for her. If she stays in your home, she works full time and repays you last semester's lost $. she also pays rent and reasonable living costs (food/bills/car insurance etc) you and her dad figure out how to get that information from the school, or get it from her, discuss and address it. unless she flunked out there would have to be a solid reason for expulsion. schools do not just expel for vague reasons.
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I mean I guess it could be. I haven't noticed any signs of drug use but I didn't notice she was expelled eitherAnonymous 2 wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2019 11:06 am Is it possible it was over drugs? If so, that needs to be your first focus.
What would you recommend I do? I doubt she would take a drug test if I asked
There is no way for us to get info from the school unless she gives permission. She said it is none of our business.stilltfez wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2019 11:06 am time to change up your plans for her. If she stays in your home, she works full time and repays you last semester's lost $. she also pays rent and reasonable living costs (food/bills/car insurance etc) you and her dad figure out how to get that information from the school, or get it from her, discuss and address it. unless she flunked out there would have to be a solid reason for expulsion. schools do not just expel for vague reasons.
We live in a pretty high cost of living area so if we rent to her it is likely she will never leave. At least that is my concern. She already said she isn't getting a job. I feel trapped. Part of me thinks the only way is to kick her out but I'm worried about what would happen if I did.
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I’d be pissed, and the stunt she tried to pull over the money? I’d consider that trying to steal from you.