S/O. I don’t want to fall in love

[Anonymous 2]

If that's what you want, there's nothing wrong with that. But tbh, I don't think you can really control whether or not you fall in love with someone.

[Inmybizz]

I kind of felt like that after my divorce. I was ready to go it alone, just date and have fun until I met the one that made me believe again.

[Anonymous 3]

What about when you get old. Just having a good time is going to change as you get older. Don't you want a special someone to spend your golden years with.

[Anonymous 2]

Yes. I think you can probably do that.

If that's what you want, there's nothing wrong with that. But tbh, I don't think you can really control whether or not you fall in love with someone.

I can control how close I let them to me & if I act on those feelings.

[MistressMonster]

I hope my heart is completely turned off. I understand that some people believe in the “one” or the right person. I don’t. If I’m seeing someone and he mentions love or commitment. I will nicely tell him that it’s not working out. I tell men I’m just having a good time. I don’t want more than that.

Point is not everyone is into the romantic

How many threads about this topic is there going to be? If you want to marry for money instead of love, so be it. Others want love. I've already had my soulmate. Miss him dearly. He set the bar so high. I don't know if there will be anyone that will measure up.

[Anonymous 2]

There does seem to be a lot of talk on this particular subject. Do you know if it's all the same poster?

I hope my heart is completely turned off. I understand that some people believe in the “one” or the right person. I don’t. If I’m seeing someone and he mentions love or commitment. I will nicely tell him that it’s not working out. I tell men I’m just having a good time. I don’t want more than that.

Point is not everyone is into the romantic

How many threads about this topic is there going to be? If you want to marry for money instead of love, so be it. Others want love. I've already had my soulmate. Miss him dearly. He set the bar so high. I don't know if there will be anyone that will measure up.

[Pjmm]

Well if you do meet an older man and break it off be so kind as send him my way. I'd like a committed relationship again. That is all.

[bluebunnybabe]

I kind of agree. I definitely said I would not fall for my husband.

[bluebunnybabe]

I kind of felt like that after my divorce. I was ready to go it alone, just date and have fun until I met the one that made me believe again.

Same here!

[bluebunnybabe]

I hope my heart is completely turned off. I understand that some people believe in the “one” or the right person. I don’t. If I’m seeing someone and he mentions love or commitment. I will nicely tell him that it’s not working out. I tell men I’m just having a good time. I don’t want more than that.

Point is not everyone is into the romantic

How many threads about this topic is there going to be? If you want to marry for money instead of love, so be it. Others want love. I've already had my soulmate. Miss him dearly. He set the bar so high. I don't know if there will be anyone that will measure up.

I haven’t been on much. I didn’t know this post was part of a theme. Lol