People are calling me petty and jealous because I dont want the other woman in my house

[jas]

Why is it weird? We usually do separate celebrations/parties

It just is.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

[WickedPissah]

Why is it weird? We usually do separate celebrations/parties

It just is.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Ok?

[Anonymous 1]

It just is.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

We had different parties when the kids graduated high school and it wasn't an issue. He just didn't want to throw one now and that is okay

My ex has 0 problems with any of it

[jas]

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

We had different parties when the kids graduated high school and it wasn't an issue. He just didn't want to throw one now and that is okay

My ex has 0 problems with any of it

So be it. Why are you so concerned with what other people are saying? While I don't agree with the jealousy part, I do get the petty vibe. Even then, that's your business.

[Anonymous 1]

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

We had different parties when the kids graduated high school and it wasn't an issue. He just didn't want to throw one now and that is okay

My ex has 0 problems with any of it

So be it. Why are you so concerned with what other people are saying? While I don't agree with the jealousy part, I do get the petty vibe. Even then, that's your business.

Because I don't like people talking about me. I was just venting

It isn't like it is the end of the world or anything

[LiveWhatULove]

I think your decision and concerns are petty.
I think party guests that would share their uninvited opinion with their host are rude and uncouth.

[Anonymous 6]

How long have you been divorced? How old was your son at the time of the divorce?

[Anonymous 7]

I think your decision and concerns are petty.
I think party guests that would share their uninvited opinion with their host are rude and uncouth.

Why are her feelings petty? Should she feel different or be different because other people disagree?

[Bubbs]

It just is.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

When that time comes, I would have it in a neutral location, so I don’t have to have him in my home.

Some people have personal space boundaries.

[madfoodie]

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things

Some things - yes. But a graduation party is different. It happens once. He should have been invited.

We had different parties when the kids graduated high school and it wasn't an issue. He just didn't want to throw one now and that is okay

My ex has 0 problems with any of it

I seriously don't know why people are having issues with this. My ex wasn't invited to ods graduation party.
Then again he isn't involved and hasn't seen him since he was 7.
I put a post on Facebook and he didn't say jack.