Uh, you clearly have no clue what you are talking about. Like...at all. Nt legally, not medically, not socially...was this mean to just be a joke response? No one is honestly this clueless, right?Baconqueen13 wrote: ↑Sun May 26, 2019 11:06 pm I"m with your sister, She seems to be the only one concerned with your mom's health and helping her to live as long as possible so the family doesn't miss out on precious time with her. If it is your goal however, to kill your mother off as quickly as possible so you will no longer be burdened by having to help with her then by all means, continue to feed her crap. When you get to a certain age in life one begins to lose one's faculties and that includes being capable of making responsible and informed decisions and the behavior of caring for one so elderly is akin to caring for a child in having to tell them no and set restrictions. If your mom is losing control of her bowels it is clear she is well beyond the capability of making such informed decisions for herself and it is up to you and your sister to be the responsible parties in managing her health and well being and quite frankly you're failing at it.
You think someone should be required to have an activated POA because they choose to eat food that upsets their stomach? Because that's my husband pretty frequently. Me sometimes, too. And pretty much every human I know.
You think that incontinence means you must be unable to comprehend risks and benefits of medical decisions?