Anonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 7:29 pm Because he who claims to have purchased a home without borrowing is most definitely lying and could stand to learn a few things about finances.
Anonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:59 pmWhy would someone who has never had any debt want to learn from someone who has it? That doesnt even make sense.Anonymous 14 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:54 pm Reds, I have that card, too! And when my kid was little, we earned several days of entrance to the park. We used our rewards to stock our at-home Disney DVD library and bought many Disney theme related gifts with those rewards. We never took advantage of the Broadway tickets, though. Never cared to. But now that the kiddo has grown, we too have switched credit cards because I like to earn ALL THE GIFT CARDS to give out as Christmas gifts!
I think you're a wise woman with your credit card usage. And I think that whoever this poster is, she could stand to learn a lot from you!
Reward people who use the system
A lot of people do it the same way I do. Look it up if you dont believe me.
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I think we can all say we wish we would of done something differently. Some just rather hold a carrot over someones head.Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 4:38 pmI think OP stopped reading ages ago.WickedPissah wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 3:59 pmI think op kid is being held responsible for his bad choices.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 3:45 pm So people shouldn’t be held responsible for their bad choices?
LOL
And until someone builds a time machine and lets everybody use it saying things like shoulda coulda woulda doesn't help or change anything.
It happened, get over it. (Not you Wicked)
I don't understand sh*t like this. Yes, ok I coulda done things different. But there's this thing called TIME. and TIME only works one way, It's very linear, it doesn't do the Jeremy Bellamy. You can't turn it back and you can't make it go faster. It is what it is.
"I would never" I hate hearing that. You don't know what you would do until you've been in a position like we've been in.
I for one am quite proud of who I've become through all the 'I would never' of all the superior people on here.
Again Wicked, none of that was meant directly towards you.
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If you have plenty of money, why isn’t it?
Anonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:16 pm That would be stupid in my opinion. Going into debt is not smart IMOAnonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:15 pm What if you -could- afford your stuff on your own but chose a loan anyhow?
Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 5:58 pm
That is exactly how it works. You could not afford those things on your own so you went into debt and borrowed money.
Who said it always was?
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:38 pmIn some cases however, it's not always because of bad decisions.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:11 pm Agreed, being on welfare is not because of good decisions.
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You.Anonymous 14 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 8:38 pm Who said it always was?
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:38 pmIn some cases however, it's not always because of bad decisions.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:11 pm Agreed, being on welfare is not because of good decisions.
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Did she ever answer how she bought her house? It must be a cheap shanty.
RedBottoms wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:53 pmSo how did you buy a house without debt? Or do you just rent which financially is not good long termAnonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:49 pm Putting something on credit is debt. It isnt hard to understand
Yes they taught me how to budget which is why I have never had one penny worth of debt in my entire life.Anonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:48 pm No. It's not. Did they teach budgeting or financing in your high school?
she probably rents. Or lives with her parents still.Anonymous 14 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 8:43 pm Did she ever answer how she bought her house? It must be a cheap shanty.
RedBottoms wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:53 pmSo how did you buy a house without debt? Or do you just rent which financially is not good long termAnonymous 0 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:49 pm Putting something on credit is debt. It isnt hard to understand
Yes they taught me how to budget which is why I have never had one penny worth of debt in my entire life.
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The money he makes is for the whole family including you and a lot of families work that way. Plenty of my friends are stay at home mothers.RedBottoms wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:06 pmBecause I handle all budgeting. I make sure we don't over spend and live within our means. I have never forgotten to pay a bill and got late fees and a bad mark on our credit.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:01 pmYOU don't pay anything, your husband does. YOU use his money from him working, why do you see that as an accomplishment?RedBottoms wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 5:55 pm
that is not how it works at all. I never pay interest on anything but my mortgage and my car which is going to be paid of years early. We paid off our last brand new car years early. I put everything on my credit card each month and then pay the bill off in full when it comes so that we establish good credit on paying on time in full and we get rewards points like when we literally bought out Disney World tickets with points-but I never pay a penny in interest.
You do realize in the eyes of the law-its OUR money right? Legally married couples share funds and debts. If we got divorced tomorrow-the Judge would consider the money to be both of ours and then decide how to split it up. I came into the marriage with money-my Grandmother gave me the washer and dryer-does that mean its MINE and not DH's? No. Its Ours.
Not talking about you but a lot of women end up on welfare because they get divorced and his money can’t afford two households. The woman goes back to work but can’t find a well paying job. It happens.
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The ingenuity comment made think of something going on in a FB group I belong to. OP, your son could do it too. One of the members, with a few items from her pantry, has been going to the Dollar Tree and buying food items. Then she turns them into amazing things. She's made all kinds of cool meals, from items she bought at the dollar store.SeekingPeace wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 3:05 pm I think the whole system needs an overhaul to REWARD working.
I also think that anyone who has never been financially self sufficient (one who has lived on his/her own and depended SOLELY on his/her own monies and not those of a parent or spouse) has no business looking down their nose at anyone who is relying on another.
Original Poster, encourage your son to continue to press forward. With a little ingenuity and some guidance, he can do this!
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You.Anonymous 14 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 8:38 pm Who said it always was?
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:38 pmIn some cases however, it's not always because of bad decisions.Anonymous 12 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 6:11 pm Agreed, being on welfare is not because of good decisions.
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