Maybe you look at the world with cynicism and prejudices and you really should sometimes talk to people from different cultures and try to understand how they live before jumping to judgments.
HaggardWitch wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 3:13 pm You certainly look at the world with innocent eyes. Arranged marriages are not consented to, they're enforced. The parents--in this situation, the fathers--make the agreement. Those no consenting; there's doing what they're told. This is a slippery slope.
Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 12:55 pm Why would you think it demeans women but not men? After all, all of us agreeing with it are saying that it should be consensual on BOTH parts. If not, we’re not agreeing with that. If the conditions are the same for both parties, then why does it make only the woman a commodity?
And yeah. Assimilation makes life easier. It doesn’t necessarily make it better or happier, though. I’ve had both. My life may not be easier now, but it’s certainly a much better life than I had before. And actually, in many ways, it is also easier now that I think about it.
HaggardWitch wrote: ↑Tue Dec 18, 2018 10:25 am All you women agreeing with arranged marriage is a damn shame. Yeah, you (anyone) met ONE couple who was happy so you think everyone is happy. Hate to tell you this but this is how women were turned into commodities. You're (again, anyone) waaaay underestimating the consequences here.
And BTW, assimilation makes life so much easier.