when my granny had a double mastectomy she didn't have To go through any of that. They took her boobs gave her 2 meds she had to take the rest of her life. She passed years later of old age. So no not ALL women go through that stuff.Lemons wrote: ↑Mon Jan 17, 2022 3:07 amTreatment has made progress by being able to identify different types of cancer and different treatment treatments. But they haven’t come that far. Women still need to put toxic drugs in their systems, they still need radiation, they still lose all their hair, the medication still needs hours to drip into your vein and Neulasta still makes many women feel like they have the worst flu ever experienced.Anonymous 5 wrote: ↑Sun Jan 16, 2022 10:17 pmIt does not matter why she wants to keep her apartment. It is her apartment and her decision to make.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sun Jan 16, 2022 8:26 pm
Uh, she spends nights here on the regular. In fact she & the baby are here over night tonight because we are expecting snow storm.
She keeps the apartment because she has 2 cats that dh will not let her bring here. She's literally only at her apartment to sleep.
I failed to mention that in many cases counseling is now offered to cancer patients and sometimes their caregivers. It is as important as any other treatment. I wish it had been part of the treatment plan the first time I had cancer in 1983. The physical emotion and mental pain and intensity of that experience haunted me for decades.
Her daughter is very young, a single mother and must be terrified. I had a husband, children, sisters, mother, in-laws, we owned our home, no money worries and I was still full of anxiety.
Her mother is concerned that her daughter won’t be able to pay for her apartment. She’s also concerned that she won’t be able to meet her daughter’s needs. Her daughter might not be realistic in wanting to keep her apartment although I don’t blame her for wanting to keep it. If she’s in financial trouble she should be focusing on looking at programs geared towards women like her. Daycare subsidies, food benefits, rent assistance, anything to help her get through this.
She has a mother who is trying to control her and force her to things she's not ready for. Did your family do that? Im betting not