Is she a horrible person for turning him down?

[Poietes]

No one is ever wrong for turning down a date. No one should ever have to date anyone they don't want to no matter what reason they give.

[Fullxbusymom]

Nope, I wouldn't date him either.

[highlandmum]

Does he get a discount on blizzards? That makes a huge difference in my answer.

This made me laugh. I just picked up a ice cream cake for my birthday tomorrow and would have loved a employee discount

[Anonymous 8]

Gold digger, no. But by 32 he should be better than dairy queen. I wouldn't date him either

That would depend on what he does at Dairy Queen. One of my high school classmates started out as a stocker at Walmart and by 32 he was a manager, making a nice living.

You don't make a nice living at Walmart.

[Deleted User 638]

She's not wrong. No one is owed a date. She's the only one who gets to decide what she wants in a guy.

[Conweis]

Is he a manager?
I know some people who make six figures and drive beaters.

[Anonymous 9]

It depends. I'd be concerned if it seemed he couldn't hold down a job, but if that didn't seem like the case, I'd give him a chance.

Also, if his 15 year old car runs fine, he may not feel the need to replace it, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he can't afford to. I'd probably be more wary if he was driving a brand new car and seemed to be struggling to make the payments.

You need to up your standards, seriously

[Anonymous 9]

Gold digger, no. But by 32 he should be better than dairy queen. I wouldn't date him either

My dad worked seven-11 at one point although he moved on to better things. So it would depend. 32 is young for me though.

Then you must be old as dirt

[Deleted User 1393]

He works at Dairy Queen, drives a 15 year old car and is 32 years old.

Is she a gold digger because she doesn’t think he’s driven enough?

Is she waiting for him to drive more miles, or different vehicles? I'm confused.

[MistressMonster]

Does he get a discount on blizzards? That makes a huge difference in my answer.

This made me laugh. I just picked up a ice cream cake for my birthday tomorrow and would have loved a employee discount