she needs to get her belongings

[Anonymous 1]

My son and his girlfriend broke up yesterday. They are both 18. They were together for a year. She told dS that her mom was going to come get her things yesterday. Her mom never showed up. Ds text her today she said she will get it today or tomorrow. She has a lot of stuff here. If she doesn't come tomorrow I am going to text her and tell her she has to Friday. My home isn't a storage unit. Her and my son broke up so her things can no longer stay in my home. I don't want to be mean but you can't break up with someone and expect them to hold on to your things.

Legally she has 30-90 days to come get her stuff. Yes, you have to hold onto it for that long.

she doesn't live here. she lives with her grandmother.

[Anonymous 1]

My son and his girlfriend broke up yesterday. They are both 18. They were together for a year. She told dS that her mom was going to come get her things yesterday. Her mom never showed up. Ds text her today she said she will get it today or tomorrow. She has a lot of stuff here. If she doesn't come tomorrow I am going to text her and tell her she has to Friday. My home isn't a storage unit. Her and my son broke up so her things can no longer stay in my home. I don't want to be mean but you can't break up with someone and expect them to hold on to your things.

Oh Hoodie, we told you this would happen, lol

I'm not hoodie.

[WickedPissah]

Why would you let your kids girlfriend live with you?

she doesn't live here. she kept some stuff here.

Maybe not lived, but she probably stayed there a lot.

Anyhow. You should give her more than a few days to get all her stuff out.

[lauren08]

Chill, it's been a day. I'm sure she'll come get her things, especially since her DIPLOMA is there, lol.

[Deleted User 1577]

I wouldn’t have text. I would have called, left a message if I had to, “three days to come get your shit. Third day, it goes to the goodwill.” Then do it. My feeling is, the day of the breakup is the day you pack it up and move out. And my house isn’t a storage locker.

[Anonymous 4]

My son and his girlfriend broke up yesterday. They are both 18. They were together for a year. She told dS that her mom was going to come get her things yesterday. Her mom never showed up. Ds text her today she said she will get it today or tomorrow. She has a lot of stuff here. If she doesn't come tomorrow I am going to text her and tell her she has to Friday. My home isn't a storage unit. Her and my son broke up so her things can no longer stay in my home. I don't want to be mean but you can't break up with someone and expect them to hold on to your things.

Legally she has 30-90 days to come get her stuff. Yes, you have to hold onto it for that long.

I'd love to see this law. For it to apply to all states it would have to be a federal law.

[Deleted User 670]

Why not have your kid get some boxes, put her stuff in them and then drive over to her house and drop it off?

[Anonymous 5]

if you guys want her stuff out of your house so bad then pack it up and take it to her and drop it off on her porch it's really not that hard and it really does not have to be that big of a deal. You are acting extremely childish

[leadfoot40]

I never understand people who don't take their stuff when they leave. She'd have a week to get her stuff.

[Olioxenfree]

It's been a day, take a deep breath.