Bm wants us to break the custody order

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Anonymous 4 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:13 am
MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 5:59 am I would never have such a dumb agreement to begin with.
If it is court ordered you don't have a choice.
Well then I wouldn't follow such a dumb rule and I wouldn't expect my exhusband to follow it either. I don't need a court telling me how to parent LOL.
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In other words you and your husband do not want to take his children.
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MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:26 am
Anonymous 4 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:13 am
MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 5:59 am I would never have such a dumb agreement to begin with.
If it is court ordered you don't have a choice.
Well then I wouldn't follow such a dumb rule and I wouldn't expect my exhusband to follow it either. I don't need a court telling me how to parent LOL.
Enjoy fines and imprisonment then. BM wanted that in the court order. Its in the CO. He has to follow the CO or he could face fines and imprionsonment
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highlandmum wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:29 am In other words you and your husband do not want to take his children.
By law they can't take the children
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Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:43 am
MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:26 am
Anonymous 4 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:13 am

If it is court ordered you don't have a choice.
Well then I wouldn't follow such a dumb rule and I wouldn't expect my exhusband to follow it either. I don't need a court telling me how to parent LOL.
Enjoy fines and imprisonment then. BM wanted that in the court order. Its in the CO. He has to follow the CO or he could face fines and imprionsonment
Oh come on. This guy will not be going to prison because his wife watched the kids a few hours while he was a meeting. Seriously. I understand having a general custody agreement but all of these little rules are petty as hell.
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Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:44 am
highlandmum wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:29 am In other words you and your husband do not want to take his children.
By law they can't take the children
No not true both parties can agree to temporarily modify the order without going to court.
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The trolls are getting boring... I doubt any mother would want to send her kids away, instead of letting them stay with her. That's just stupid.
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highlandmum wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:29 am In other words you and your husband do not want to take his children.
Where did you get that?
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highlandmum wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:51 am
Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:44 am
highlandmum wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:29 am In other words you and your husband do not want to take his children.
By law they can't take the children
No not true both parties can agree to temporarily modify the order without going to court.
Dh has tried to reason with bm to take that part-out, but she didn't want too.
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Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:43 am
MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:26 am
Anonymous 4 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:13 am

If it is court ordered you don't have a choice.
Well then I wouldn't follow such a dumb rule and I wouldn't expect my exhusband to follow it either. I don't need a court telling me how to parent LOL.
Enjoy fines and imprisonment then. BM wanted that in the court order. Its in the CO. He has to follow the CO or he could face fines and imprionsonment
We broke ours all the time by mutual agreement. We often changed visitation or holidays. If both parents are on the same page the courts don't give a crap. The sm just is annoyed with the court order so she's going to make it difficult for the bm. I don't blame her but it's sad for the children.
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