If your husband

[mommy_jules]

IF anyone invaded my personal space and screamed at me like that, they would be tased and possibly grit balled afterwards.
I would then get on the phone and start searching for an Attorney to start Divorce proceedings

Screamed in your face how much he HATES your family, how would you react? Then he screams how he hasn't been happy in 20yrs, and it's all someone else's fault, not his.

Meanwhile, HIS family is on a pedestal....a 'family' that raised him with severe physical and emotional abuse.

I may regret asking, but what is grit balled?

[Deleted User 638]

I'd be calling a divorce attorney ASAP.

[mommy_jules]

To answer OP question: I'd ask him to leave then call a divorce attorney.

[CotterpinDoozer]

Pack his bag and throw his ass out. I don't play that kind of shit.

[mojogirl]

This sounds like a last straw kind of situation.

[MonarchMom]

Life should not be filled with anger, conflict and stress. You and your children deserve to the space and stability to flourish. I hope you reach out for the resources you need to leave this situation and make a peaceful life.

[Anonymous 5]

I'm not a f**k up so I would never be with a man who would do that anyway

[Deleted User 638]

I'm not a f**k up so I would never be with a man who would do that anyway

[Sassy762]

Its from a Madea movie, LOL
You throw a big pan of hot grits in someones face then whack them with a big cast iron skillet, LOL

IF anyone invaded my personal space and screamed at me like that, they would be tased and possibly grit balled afterwards.
I would then get on the phone and start searching for an Attorney to start Divorce proceedings

Screamed in your face how much he HATES your family, how would you react? Then he screams how he hasn't been happy in 20yrs, and it's all someone else's fault, not his.

Meanwhile, HIS family is on a pedestal....a 'family' that raised him with severe physical and emotional abuse.

I may regret asking, but what is grit balled?

[CMrefugee]

If my dh screamed in my face like that and told me that he has been unhappy for 20 years, I'd tell him to leave. Gtfo!! Why stick around if he's so damn unhappy?

In reality though that's not something I'd have to deal with. Dh's family is toxic and crazy and he knows it so... I don't even have to say it, there's just no denying it. We don't live anywhere near them and we barely speak to them.