I think his dd is trying to push my buttons.
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Older people take the front seats here. So say for example when we used to give DH's grandma rides places. Out of respect we gave her the front passenger seat. In your situation the DD is being rude especially if she's been told.
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That's exactly how I was raised and I'm raising my kids the same way.carterscutie85 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 8:42 pm Older people take the front seats here. So say for example when we used to give DH's grandma rides places. Out of respect we gave her the front passenger seat. In your situation the DD is being rude especially if she's been told.
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btw your ds is the cutest! I just looked at his pic on your profile ❤❤❤carterscutie85 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 8:42 pm Older people take the front seats here. So say for example when we used to give DH's grandma rides places. Out of respect we gave her the front passenger seat. In your situation the DD is being rude especially if she's been told.
this is so trashy.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 8:14 pmMy baby is good in the backseat so there's no need for me to sit back there and I'm glad that I'm not naive enough to think she was being considerate.Anonymous 10 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 7:59 pm Um I would have sat in the backseat with my baby. I think she was trying to be considerate rather than rude.
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I thought she broke up with her SO. If they got back together that's fine. But the daughter may not be pleased about it. I wouldn't argue nor fight. I'd probably sit with my baby actually but whatever.Anonymous 8 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:58 pm lol. Oh...It sounds like she was trying to get a rise out of you. Don't give her the satisfaction of playing into her games. Just state what you want and state it without any attitude. The sooner she realizes that she's not getting a rise out of you, the sooner she might let up.
RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:54 pmI said " sorry girl but that's my spot " with a huge fake smile on my face and she looked at her dad and then moved with a huge fake smile on her face.Anonymous 8 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:50 pm I don't know if she was trying to push your buttons or if she wasn't. But if I thought she was trying to get on my nerves, I'd be sure to act like I wasn't fazed by her actions. I'd simply say, "X, I'll be sitting up front. Thanks."
What did she say or do when you politely asked her to get out of your seat?
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You don't have to solve everything by being rude.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:54 pmI said " sorry girl but that's my spot " with a huge fake smile on my face and she looked at her dad and then moved with a huge fake smile on her face.Anonymous 8 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:50 pm I don't know if she was trying to push your buttons or if she wasn't. But if I thought she was trying to get on my nerves, I'd be sure to act like I wasn't fazed by her actions. I'd simply say, "X, I'll be sitting up front. Thanks."
What did she say or do when you politely asked her to get out of your seat?
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How was I rude? I would think that her thinking it's ok to take my seat was rude. Usually spouses sit together.Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Mon Jun 29, 2020 3:39 amYou don't have to solve everything by being rude.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:54 pmI said " sorry girl but that's my spot " with a huge fake smile on my face and she looked at her dad and then moved with a huge fake smile on her face.Anonymous 8 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:50 pm I don't know if she was trying to push your buttons or if she wasn't. But if I thought she was trying to get on my nerves, I'd be sure to act like I wasn't fazed by her actions. I'd simply say, "X, I'll be sitting up front. Thanks."
What did she say or do when you politely asked her to get out of your seat?
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Calling her "girl" with a huge fake smile. people often offer the front seat to adult guests.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Mon Jun 29, 2020 6:14 amHow was I rude? I would think that her thinking it's ok to take my seat was rude. Usually spouses sit together.Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Mon Jun 29, 2020 3:39 amYou don't have to solve everything by being rude.RealisticBeauty wrote: ↑Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:54 pm
I said " sorry girl but that's my spot " with a huge fake smile on my face and she looked at her dad and then moved with a huge fake smile on her face.