Well, if this isn't a troll and you are for real, it does make you inconsiderate. If you love someone, what's important to them is important to you. She didn't believe in staying in a marriage she wasn't completely happy in. I would think as a good sister you would applaud her not settling. She may think less of you for remaining in your relationship, which I am assuming is long term based on your criticism of her being married twice. I don't blame her or your mother for being upset. I honestly wouldn't bother with you much anymore if you intentionally disrespected me like that. We reap what we sow in this life and you are sowing discord.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:07 pmI am not a troll. Not wanting to go to a wedding doesnt make me a troll.
I'm not going to my sister's wedding
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Both of her ex husbands left her.Valentina327 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:20 pmWell, if this isn't a troll and you are for real, it does make you inconsiderate. If you love someone, what's important to them is important to you. She didn't believe in staying in a marriage she wasn't completely happy in. I would think as a good sister you would applaud her not settling. She may think less of you for remaining in your relationship, which I am assuming is long term based on your criticism of her being married twice. I don't blame her or your mother for being upset. I honestly wouldn't bother with you much anymore if you intentionally disrespected me like that. We reap what we sow in this life and you are sowing discord.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:07 pmI am not a troll. Not wanting to go to a wedding doesnt make me a troll.
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Yep.
Although I would still go. Maybe it is the one this time, I’ve seen people who made a third marriage work and be “the one”. And ultimately I can celebrate that moment and that occasion, which I’m sure is special to her. And if I love and care for someone, then I would be there for them to support them in moments that are special for them.
Although I would still go. Maybe it is the one this time, I’ve seen people who made a third marriage work and be “the one”. And ultimately I can celebrate that moment and that occasion, which I’m sure is special to her. And if I love and care for someone, then I would be there for them to support them in moments that are special for them.
Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:01 pm While I don’t blame you for not going to a third wedding, you shouldn’t be an asshole about it.
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I agree. I, for example, think that gender reveal parties are dumb, but if someone I cared about invited me to one I would go and celebrate with them, because while it may seem dumb to me, it’s a happy and special occasion for them.
Valentina327 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:20 pmWell, if this isn't a troll and you are for real, it does make you inconsiderate. If you love someone, what's important to them is important to you. She didn't believe in staying in a marriage she wasn't completely happy in. I would think as a good sister you would applaud her not settling. She may think less of you for remaining in your relationship, which I am assuming is long term based on your criticism of her being married twice. I don't blame her or your mother for being upset. I honestly wouldn't bother with you much anymore if you intentionally disrespected me like that. We reap what we sow in this life and you are sowing discord.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:07 pmI am not a troll. Not wanting to go to a wedding doesnt make me a troll.
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Would you take off work, fly out, get a hotel, buy an outfit, etc to attend a gender reveal party?
Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:35 pm I agree. I, for example, think that gender reveal parties are dumb, but if someone I cared about invited me to one I would go and celebrate with them, because while it may seem dumb to me, it’s a happy and special occasion for them.
Valentina327 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:20 pmWell, if this isn't a troll and you are for real, it does make you inconsiderate. If you love someone, what's important to them is important to you. She didn't believe in staying in a marriage she wasn't completely happy in. I would think as a good sister you would applaud her not settling. She may think less of you for remaining in your relationship, which I am assuming is long term based on your criticism of her being married twice. I don't blame her or your mother for being upset. I honestly wouldn't bother with you much anymore if you intentionally disrespected me like that. We reap what we sow in this life and you are sowing discord.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:07 pm
I am not a troll. Not wanting to go to a wedding doesnt make me a troll.
Because HER wedding, no matter how many there have been, is about you.
You sound very immature.
You sound very immature.