Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 9:06 pm I don't know. Maybe because judging people you don't know makes you feel better about yourself? Maybe because there are a lot of jerks out there? Could be lots of things.
It's on my 8 year old's Christmas list. It's not like I want it as much as he does. I hadn't played it in months, he played it every chance he got.
Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 8:57 pm Why I am getting the distinct feeling that since you can't afford to replace a system that you enjoy playing, you're trying to justify making your KIDS pay for it?
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 7:53 pm I have 2 kids, I owe them each about $120 in allowance, and they also have about $300 saved up between the two of them. Would it be flat out wrong to ask them to put money towards a new video game system for the whole family? We had one until recently but it needs replaced.
They're 8 & 10.
He shouldn't have to pay for something on his Christmas list. Don't be so worried that they might be spoiled that you go too far the other direction.
It doesn't matter if you gave them some or all of the money. Once you give something to someone it's theirs. To feel you have the right to ask for something because you gave it to them is disrespectful to your children.
As to them losing their money on a trip , things like that happen to everyone, including adults. You owe them money. Show your children your word is to be trusted. Pay them the money you owe them.