I think that is a more than enough time. I am sure they were done long before he actually moved out and was already healed by the time they met. I don't see that as newly separated.madfoodie wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:49 amI was talking about the amount of time it took for the divorce. He was separated for 9 months when she met him and she stated it tok another 6 months after that for the divorce to be final.carterscutie85 wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:41 amOP said they had been separated for 9 months when she met him. Not 1 year 3 months.
I just feel like when people are newly separated or divorced they should take time to heal and find themselves.
My DH was married when we started dating
Well I have been separated for 4yrs 3mo's. We lead completely separate lives. He lives 30mins from me has a girlfriend that he has lived with for 4yrs and I date too. No biggie that I can see.
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Both of my parents were dating their current spouses when married, but separated. You’re right, the divorce process takes FOREVER.
With that novel long post it sounds like you are trying to justify dating and moving in with a married man just a few months after meeting him.
Thats not something I would do, but you do you.
Thats not something I would do, but you do you.
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Seriously.
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That’s your opinion.madfoodie wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:49 amI was talking about the amount of time it took for the divorce. He was separated for 9 months when she met him and she stated it tok another 6 months after that for the divorce to be final.carterscutie85 wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:41 amOP said they had been separated for 9 months when she met him. Not 1 year 3 months.
I just feel like when people are newly separated or divorced they should take time to heal and find themselves.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:01 pmYour comment was a LOT more bitchy than it needed to be.
bitchy? lmao
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Telling the truth can be bitchy to some.leadfoot40 wrote: ↑Sat Mar 16, 2019 5:39 pmAnonymous 3 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:01 pmYour comment was a LOT more bitchy than it needed to be.
bitchy? lmao
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