My DH was married when we started dating

[carterscutie85]

9+6= 15
15-12= 1 year 3 months. That is not too long to wait to start dating. I'm sorry but it just isn't. He could have waited.

OP said they had been separated for 9 months when she met him. Not 1 year 3 months.

[madfoodie]

9+6= 15
15-12= 1 year 3 months. That is not too long to wait to start dating. I'm sorry but it just isn't. He could have waited.

OP said they had been separated for 9 months when she met him. Not 1 year 3 months.

I was talking about the amount of time it took for the divorce. He was separated for 9 months when she met him and she stated it tok another 6 months after that for the divorce to be final.
I just feel like when people are newly separated or divorced they should take time to heal and find themselves.

[WickedPissah]

Divorces take forever.

[ReadingRainbow]

Did you have kids at the time?

[Anonymous 5]

How do you see if a divorce is pending?

[Anonymous 1]

Did you have kids at the time?

Yes, a 5 year old.

[Anonymous 1]

How do you see if a divorce is pending?

Criminal dockets can be seen online here and for whatever reason divorce proceedings are also on the same website that you'd search a criminal case for. So all I have to do is type in a name and date range and it will tell me if they've had a felony or a divorce, or if they'd been taken to small claims court. You can see everything-like the scanned copies of the divorce papers, etc.

[mojogirl]

Wow that's a helluva hangup to have on your exroommate after 10 years. I mean wow. Let it go.

[carterscutie85]

Wow that's a helluva hangup to have on your exroommate after 10 years. I mean wow. Let it go.

I wouldn't forgive someone who tried to have my child taken away based on a lie due to their jealousy. Would I harp on it no but I wouldn't forgive them.

[carterscutie85]

How do you see if a divorce is pending?

Criminal dockets can be seen online here and for whatever reason divorce proceedings are also on the same website that you'd search a criminal case for. So all I have to do is type in a name and date range and it will tell me if they've had a felony or a divorce, or if they'd been taken to small claims court. You can see everything-like the scanned copies of the divorce papers, etc.

It's the same here. Criminal/divorce records are considered public knowledge, but they do block out social security numbers and addresses.