Every child whether typical or not needs extra attention at times. Its a balancing act no matter the kids you haveRedBottoms wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:51 pmIts my experience too. Your troll story is falling apart. Stop fightingAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:15 pmThat is your families experience.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pm
I know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.
Bm is mad our family is growing.
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2 of our children play ice hockey that takes a lot of time and attention.QuantumNursing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 2:40 pmEven normal children needs different levels of attention thean their pther sibilingsEves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pmI know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:39 pm
Please tell me what extra attention she needs vs the other children.
To them bm is hurt so everything i do is wrong.
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She's entitled to her bad feelings about the situation.
She is NOT entitled to treat you or anyone else badly because of it. She needs to find a way to grieve her situation and move on.
She is NOT entitled to treat you or anyone else badly because of it. She needs to find a way to grieve her situation and move on.
You're excused.Anonymous 13 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 1:00 pmAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:49 pmAnonymous 13 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:34 pm So why are you entertaining her by letting her get under your skin? I am assuming you are posting this to show how small she is, but in the same turn, you are proving that you welcome the drama because you wont let it go. Who cares if she doenst like the fact that your family is growing. Does her feelings really have any effect on your life? Out side of emotions, I cant see how it does. If you dont like the drama, then stop giving her the satisfaction of letting her get under your skin and stop worrying about how she feels about your family. You sound just as petty as you are trying to make her sound.No youre right, clearly she doesnt. Pardon my ignorance.....She doesn't get under my skin....It's rather petty to focus on us when she has her own child to focus on..
true. But OP just sat there and said that all the kids get equal attention all the time and that is not trueQuantumNursing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 2:48 pmEvery child whether typical or not needs extra attention at times. Its a balancing act no matter the kids you haveRedBottoms wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:51 pmIts my experience too. Your troll story is falling apart. Stop fighting
I agree!!Traci_Momof2 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 3:14 pm She's entitled to her bad feelings about the situation.
She is NOT entitled to treat you or anyone else badly because of it. She needs to find a way to grieve her situation and move on.
For her own sake at least and for her child. Sd should be able to talk about her siblings freely without walking on egg shells.
Maybe one day.
My life is perfect to me.RedBottoms wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 10:33 pmIt can't be the same person because this poster has a perfect life as she keeps telling usAnonymous 14 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 7:34 pm Are you also the sailsbury steak poster lol?
I answered your question in another post.RedBottoms wrote: ↑Wed Feb 13, 2019 2:28 pm Still no answer to what exactly BM is doing that is "the worst". Uh huh