I know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:39 pmPlease tell me what extra attention she needs vs the other children.Eves9 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:27 pmAs a mother of a SN kid and a child with a personality disorder, I find your last sentence to be utter sh*t.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 4:16 pm
We are a two-parent household. All the kids get plenty of attention. Our daughter with down syndrome doesn't require any extra attention.
Bm is mad our family is growing.
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That is your families experience.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pmI know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.
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What I'm saying is you are full of shit. I've worked with SN kids a good portion of my life and I know they can be awesome kids and amazing but they also do require extra attention due to being SN.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:15 pmThat is your families experience.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pmI know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:39 pm
Please tell me what extra attention she needs vs the other children.
So, you can pretend that your life is F***ing perfect but you are still full of it.
My life to me is perfect. Great DH and kids.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:17 pmWhat I'm saying is you are full of sh*t. I've worked with SN kids a good portion of my life and I know they can be awesome kids and amazing but they also do require extra attention due to being SN.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:15 pmThat is your families experience.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pm
I know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.
So, you can pretend that your life is f*ck perfect but you are still full of it.
So why are you entertaining her by letting her get under your skin? I am assuming you are posting this to show how small she is, but in the same turn, you are proving that you welcome the drama because you wont let it go. Who cares if she doenst like the fact that your family is growing. Does her feelings really have any effect on your life? Out side of emotions, I cant see how it does. If you dont like the drama, then stop giving her the satisfaction of letting her get under your skin and stop worrying about how she feels about your family. You sound just as petty as you are trying to make her sound.
She doesn't get under my skin. Do you want her to?Anonymous 13 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:34 pm So why are you entertaining her by letting her get under your skin? I am assuming you are posting this to show how small she is, but in the same turn, you are proving that you welcome the drama because you wont let it go. Who cares if she doenst like the fact that your family is growing. Does her feelings really have any effect on your life? Out side of emotions, I cant see how it does. If you dont like the drama, then stop giving her the satisfaction of letting her get under your skin and stop worrying about how she feels about your family. You sound just as petty as you are trying to make her sound.
It's rather petty to focus on us when she has her own child to focus on.
Its my experience too. Your troll story is falling apart. Stop fightingAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:15 pmThat is your families experience.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pmI know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:39 pm
Please tell me what extra attention she needs vs the other children.
If its perfect than why are you here complaining about BM drama? That right there makes your life imperfectAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:27 pmMy life to me is perfect. Great DH and kids.Eves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:17 pmWhat I'm saying is you are full of sh*t. I've worked with SN kids a good portion of my life and I know they can be awesome kids and amazing but they also do require extra attention due to being SN.
So, you can pretend that your life is f*ck perfect but you are still full of it.
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:49 pmAnonymous 13 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:34 pm So why are you entertaining her by letting her get under your skin? I am assuming you are posting this to show how small she is, but in the same turn, you are proving that you welcome the drama because you wont let it go. Who cares if she doenst like the fact that your family is growing. Does her feelings really have any effect on your life? Out side of emotions, I cant see how it does. If you dont like the drama, then stop giving her the satisfaction of letting her get under your skin and stop worrying about how she feels about your family. You sound just as petty as you are trying to make her sound.No youre right, clearly she doesnt. Pardon my ignorance.....She doesn't get under my skin....It's rather petty to focus on us when she has her own child to focus on..
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Even normal children needs different levels of attention thean their pther sibilingsEves9 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:05 pmI know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.