BM isn't letting my step kids to to school

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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:07 pm
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 11:02 am

DH is their father and he should be able to have some say. They should be making these decisions together.
Then he can drive them.
That is what he offered. She said no.
Dh can take it to court it will take a while but if it's important to the kids then it's worth it, right?
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WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:42 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:07 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 5:55 pm
Then he can drive them.
That is what he offered. She said no.
Dh can take it to court it will take a while but if it's important to the kids then it's worth it, right?
It won't matter because a decision won't be made before school starts.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:56 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:42 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:07 pm

That is what he offered. She said no.
Dh can take it to court it will take a while but if it's important to the kids then it's worth it, right?
It won't matter because a decision won't be made before school starts.
I know but it won't take the whole school year to get into court.
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WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:03 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:56 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:42 pm
Dh can take it to court it will take a while but if it's important to the kids then it's worth it, right?
It won't matter because a decision won't be made before school starts.
I know but it won't take the whole school year to get into court.
They can't start in person school during the school year.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:04 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:03 pm
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It won't matter because a decision won't be made before school starts.
I know but it won't take the whole school year to get into court.
They can't start in person school during the school year.
You had to commit to full year of online? We didn't have that. We had virtual with plans to reassess after the first semester. Option 2. We have 3 options.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:04 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:03 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:56 pm

It won't matter because a decision won't be made before school starts.
I know but it won't take the whole school year to get into court.
They can't start in person school during the school year.
Oh well then I guess they will be doing school online.
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She’s right and I agree with her.
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Pjmm wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:07 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:04 pm
WickedPissah wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:03 pm
I know but it won't take the whole school year to get into court.
They can't start in person school during the school year.
You had to commit to full year of online? We didn't have that. We had virtual with plans to reassess after the first semester. Option 2. We have 3 options.
The school has made it clear that people could not switch to in person classes after the school year starts. I think they are wanting to avoid a flood of people changing their minds if things go well.
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Msprekteacher wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:04 pm He can certainly have an opinion, but no, she is the custodial parent and should be the one to decide. My husband and I are going round and round regarding our own children and one of us will “win” and the other will simply have been heard.

Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:01 pm
Msprekteacher wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 11:51 am Omg what a Horrible birth mother! How dare she weigh the pros and cons and make a decision that she feels best! Good grief if only she had given birth to them and then had custody of them? Gosh!

Sorry but I’m team her!
So DH shouldn't have any say?
op said they have 50/50
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Anonymous 12 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 8:55 pm
Msprekteacher wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:04 pm He can certainly have an opinion, but no, she is the custodial parent and should be the one to decide. My husband and I are going round and round regarding our own children and one of us will “win” and the other will simply have been heard.

Anonymous 1 wrote: Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:01 pm

So DH shouldn't have any say?
op said they have 50/50
Even with 50/50 one parent is the primary parent, meaning the kids use that parents address as their main address.
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