Exactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.
Exactly.
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:25 amExactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.
Lol yep..Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 11:17 am It's weird...the dynamics that can go on between wives and ex-wives. In some cases, I think there truly is just some jealousy going on between the two. And in other cases, the ex THINKS the new wife is jealous of the old when in fact she couldn't care less. (My thoughts, as the new wife, were always, "If he wanted his ex-wife, he'd be with her.")
But regarding my DH and his ex communicating...He wanted to speak with her as little as possible. So he put her on an "email basis" only communication. That fixed a lot. Of course, if there had been an emergency, she knew she could call any time of day. But for us, my DH & his ex...we all felt much better talking to her as infrequently as possible. But she was a drama queen. I don't take you for a drama queen.
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:25 amExactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 12:45 pmLol yep..Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 11:17 am It's weird...the dynamics that can go on between wives and ex-wives. In some cases, I think there truly is just some jealousy going on between the two. And in other cases, the ex THINKS the new wife is jealous of the old when in fact she couldn't care less. (My thoughts, as the new wife, were always, "If he wanted his ex-wife, he'd be with her.")
But regarding my DH and his ex communicating...He wanted to speak with her as little as possible. So he put her on an "email basis" only communication. That fixed a lot. Of course, if there had been an emergency, she knew she could call any time of day. But for us, my DH & his ex...we all felt much better talking to her as infrequently as possible. But she was a drama queen. I don't take you for a drama queen.
WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:25 am
Exactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.
I saw a meme get back with your ex or go to jail for 6 months.
Who is putting money on my canteen? Lol
I agree exactly. We didn't really agree we won't be a team. It was a given, with the dynamics that happened. I don't need/want her to be available for me, I can figure it out without her. I think all BM's can.Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:02 am Exactly. I get a kick out of these members who say that the step mom should have no say in anything...but that she should be available to the BM...just incase BM needs to reach her. Each of them (BM and step mom) need to make up their minds. They either agree to do things as a team...or they agree that they won't be. Can't have it both ways.
My ex and I still don't really communicate. Our kids are teens, so there isn't much to say.WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:25 amExactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.
Bubbs wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 3:43 pmI agree exactly. We didn't really agree we won't be a team. It was a given, with the dynamics that happened. I don't need/want her to be available for me, I can figure it out without her. I think all BM's can.Anonymous 3 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:02 am Exactly. I get a kick out of these members who say that the step mom should have no say in anything...but that she should be available to the BM...just incase BM needs to reach her. Each of them (BM and step mom) need to make up their minds. They either agree to do things as a team...or they agree that they won't be. Can't have it both ways.
Our ds is an adult not much to chat about. He will send the occasional text asking me to tell ds to call him.Bubbs wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 3:44 pmMy ex and I still don't really communicate. Our kids are teens, so there isn't much to say.WickedPissah wrote: ↑Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:25 amExactly.
Although stepmom, in the beginning, wanted to communicate with me to keep me from communicating with my ex. Not sure why since she said he no longer wanted me. Okay then don't get all busted up with us communicating.
Silly lady.