My mom is saying I'm horrible for missing what might be her last Thanksgiving

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My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.

My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.

My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.

It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
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Just tell her it might be your last day too. Everytime she brings it up tell her to stop with emotional manipulation and hang up. Every time she brings it up hang it up
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.

My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.

My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.

It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
Tell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year either
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I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
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Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.

Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
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Same troll different post 🤷‍♀️
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Anonymous 2 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 am
Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.

Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
My question was for the OP, anon 2.
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Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:43 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 am
Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.

Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
My question was for the OP, anon 2.
I'll edit my post to call her a manipulative bitch too then
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Anonymous 2 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:46 am
Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:43 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 am


Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
My question was for the OP, anon 2.
I'll edit my post to call her a manipulative bitch too then
Whatever.
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.

My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.

My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.

It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
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