My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
My mom is saying I'm horrible for missing what might be her last Thanksgiving
Just tell her it might be your last day too. Everytime she brings it up tell her to stop with emotional manipulation and hang up. Every time she brings it up hang it up
Tell her thats sad but since she' a manipulative bitch, you won't be coming for Christmas this year eitherAnonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
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I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
Anonymom*23/6/364 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
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My question was for the OP, anon 2.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 amAnonymom*23/6/364 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
I'll edit my post to call her a manipulative bitch too thenAnonymom*23/6/364 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:43 amMy question was for the OP, anon 2.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 amAnonymom*23/6/364 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:31 am I'm just wondering how you feel about anon 3 calling your mom a bitch?
It doesn't really say anything about your mom, since 3 doesn't know her, but it is pretty indicative of the type of person 3 is, if you ask me.
Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
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Whatever.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:46 amI'll edit my post to call her a manipulative bitch too thenAnonymom*23/6/364 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:43 amMy question was for the OP, anon 2.Anonymous 2 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:37 am
Any person who is crass enough to emotionally blackmail their family to do as they want is definitely a manipulative bitch. If mom wasn't being a manipulative bitch OP wouldn't have needed to post. So in short when you act like a manipulative bitch don't be offense when someone calls you out on being a manipulative bitch
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Australia/NZ strikes again?Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:42 am My mom has some mild health issues. Nothing crazy but she likes to use it as an excuse to guilt trip me.
My husband, kids, and I moved from the US over 10 years ago. Going back for Thanksgiving has never been a viable option because it is expensive and the kids have school. We do visit every year for Christmas.
My mom always bitches about us not going for Thanksgiving. Now she is using the "it might be my last one" excuse.
It is getting so annoying and making me not want to even want to go see her at all. She says I'm selfish but really she is the one being selfish.
The oranges of the island are like blazing fire
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.
My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.
My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14