It isnt my job to pick my step kids up from school
The mom of my step kids never wanted me involved with any of that sort of thing...until she did. And if I couldn't do it, she'd say, "You only want to play mom when it's convenient for you."
I think it’s ridiculous she expects you to up and leave work whenever. She needs a better support system in place for stuff like this.
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Oh Yay, another Shitty stepmom sticking it to the whiney BM post where neither one can learn to F***ing co-parent like adults for the betterment of the kids.
Not leaving work so she doesn't have to go out of her way doesn't mean I am shitty. DH and BM co parent. That is between them.Baconqueen13 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:29 pm Oh Yay, another Shitty stepmom sticking it to the whiney BM post where neither one can learn to F***ing co-parent like adults for the betterment of the kids.
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I'm sorry you're right it's another "Shitty Stepmom sticking it to shitty birthmom because neither one thinks it's their responsibility to parent and both are selfish twats" post.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:35 pmNot leaving work so she doesn't have to go out of her way doesn't mean I am shitty. DH and BM co parent. That is between them.Baconqueen13 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:29 pm Oh Yay, another Shitty stepmom sticking it to the whiney BM post where neither one can learn to F***ing co-parent like adults for the betterment of the kids.
If she could wait until I was done work and I could do it, I would.
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 8:12 pm BM always seems to call me when the kids need to be picked up early from school. I work very close to their school so I guess she thinks it is easier for me to get them. Yes I work closer but that doesn't mean I can just leave work to go get them.
DH had me pick them up during an actually emergency and I had no problem with that but that is different than them just running a fever or feeling sick.
BM told me she is "getting sick of this" and that I don't help out equally. She says if I want to be seen as one of their moms I need to step up to the plate. I don't agree with that. On her time it is her job to deal with the kids. If I had a day off I wouldn't mind but she wouldn't call me anyway because I wouldn't be close to them.
I kind of just want to tell her to go f**k herself but I would never do that.
She's not their mom it isn't her responsibilityBaconqueen13 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:37 pmI'm sorry you're right it's another "Shitty Stepmom sticking it to shitty birthmom because neither one thinks it's their responsibility to parent and both are selfish twats" post.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:35 pmNot leaving work so she doesn't have to go out of her way doesn't mean I am shitty. DH and BM co parent. That is between them.Baconqueen13 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:29 pm Oh Yay, another Shitty stepmom sticking it to the whiney BM post where neither one can learn to F***ing co-parent like adults for the betterment of the kids.
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I never had problems taking Kiddo and Kidlet to school. Or picking them up for that matter. Maybe I'm just weird.
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Taking them too and from school is different than leaving working in the middle of the day to take them to BMMistressMonster wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:57 pm I never had problems taking Kiddo and Kidlet to school. Or picking them up for that matter. Maybe I'm just weird.