What?Anonymous 5 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:14 pm And BM is still mad about your vacations
Sd is not moving into the house with her baby
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All babies are different. My children were all very laid back when they were babies and rarely cried.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:41 pmBaby's cry. I don't want that all the time in my houseAnonymous 7 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:38 pm Why not agree that she can move in for a month while she’s figuring things out, and if it’s working out let her stay? Why are you assuming it’s going to be terrible?
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:41 pmBaby's cry. I don't want that all the time in my houseAnonymous 7 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:38 pm Why not agree that she can move in for a month while she’s figuring things out, and if it’s working out let her stay? Why are you assuming it’s going to be terrible?
When did half the world suddenly decide apostrophes were used to make things plural? Gah.
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I wouldn't love it either but I would never tell one of my children, no. Especially in a situation such as you describe.
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I'd probably let her come back for a couple of months to regroup. It's scary to be in your own with a baby. I don't think I'd want 2 years. That's always a possibility when you marry a man with children. Kids need to come back sometimes. We all need a soft place to land when the world had been extremely shitty.
Regardless of the fact she doesn't need help paying for her baby, the child's father should still be paying child support. He doesn't get to just walk away.
Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 5:33 pmShe doesn't need help paying for it but I'd help if she did.MonarchMom wrote: ↑Thu Sep 19, 2019 5:30 pm In this situation if I did not feel she could move in I would assist her in finding a nearby rental and subsidize it if needed. Of course Father should also be supporting the child, and the rental should be something she can pay for on her own within a year or two when she is on her feet.
She has a good paying job
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