dh is an idiot...

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wtf

dh was on the phone with me and mentioned he's depressed. He also told me that people are thinking it's a shame that I kick him out in his "time of need".

Are you freaking serious? I kicked him out because he was saying he was going to off himself while waving a gun. He was acting scary and just before this he was threatening me & the kids. This was Not the first time, just the first time I called for help.

So I'm the evil one because he's sick and needs help and I should be understanding? wtf what about the trauma the kids and I went though? Why about my mental health?

Total ramble, but I'm just so ticked.
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Hugs. Stay strong.
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I wouldn't even be talking to him.
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I bet those people aren't saying that and he's manipulating you. Or they hear his sob story where he makes you out to be the villain.
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Why are you still dealing with him. You have more serious things to worry about than what others are saying. Like finding a job so you can pay your bills.
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Well- someone who is depressed needs care and concern and help.
Kicking him out is harsh and hurtful.
First , I’d get rid of guns in the house and call a psychiatrist . He probably needs medication and counseling.
It sounds like you’re part of the reason he’s depressed. You just don’t call a depressed person an idiot. You try to help.
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carterscutie85 wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:32 pm I bet those people aren't saying that and he's manipulating you. Or they hear his sob story where he makes you out to be the villain.
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Anonymous 2 wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:39 pm Well- someone who is depressed needs care and concern and help.
Kicking him out is harsh and hurtful.
First , I’d get rid of guns in the house and call a psychiatrist . He probably needs medication and counseling.
It sounds like you’re part of the reason he’s depressed. You just don’t call a depressed person an idiot. You try to help.




Do NOT troll over something like this. Grow the f**k up.
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You are an idiot for staying until now
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Sounds like he's just trying to be manipulative and make you feel guilty. 10 to 1 no one is actually saying that. And if they are he's giving them a very abridged version of why you asked him to leave.
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