Freaking out BIG time! I need answers ASAP!!!!!

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I'm in need of desperate help!!!! To make a long story short, my daughter's dad passed away years ago, but he never knew about her. Well, the grandparents have found out about her and after looking at pics of her on social media, and have decided to do a grandparent DNA test. They are forking over all the costs but I don't want to do this!! I feel like I'm being forced into it. This might sound shady but can I somehow make this test come back inconclusive? Please help!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:07 pm I'm in need of desperate help!!!! To make a long story short, my daughter's dad passed away years ago, but he never knew about her. Well, the grandparents have found out about her and after looking at pics of her on social media, and have decided to do a grandparent DNA test. They are forking over all the costs but I don't want to do this!! I feel like I'm being forced into it. This might sound shady but can I somehow make this test come back inconclusive? Please help!!!!!!!!!
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You are being forced or subpoenaed to provide a dna test?
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Is there some reason you think you are obligated to have the test, just because they want it? You are the parent, it seems like it would be your call and you could refuse.
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Uncle dad! Your train wreck has been missed.
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iamanon wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:11 pm You are being forced or subpoenaed to provide a dna test?
It's an at-home test. I feel like im being forced because they are dying to know if she belongs to him or not. I don't know what to do. I'm honestly scared that they could be trying to take my child away.
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MistressMonster wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:10 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:07 pm I'm in need of desperate help!!!! To make a long story short, my daughter's dad passed away years ago, but he never knew about her. Well, the grandparents have found out about her and after looking at pics of her on social media, and have decided to do a grandparent DNA test. They are forking over all the costs but I don't want to do this!! I feel like I'm being forced into it. This might sound shady but can I somehow make this test come back inconclusive? Please help!!!!!!!!!
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I think this is the one who claimed the dead soldier was dad, instead of naming the junkie or cousin who was really the dad, isn’t it?
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Donnie wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:16 pm
MistressMonster wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:10 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:07 pm I'm in need of desperate help!!!! To make a long story short, my daughter's dad passed away years ago, but he never knew about her. Well, the grandparents have found out about her and after looking at pics of her on social media, and have decided to do a grandparent DNA test. They are forking over all the costs but I don't want to do this!! I feel like I'm being forced into it. This might sound shady but can I somehow make this test come back inconclusive? Please help!!!!!!!!!
Hello uncle daddy!
I think this is the one who claimed the dead soldier was dad, instead of the junkie or cousin who was really the dad, isn’t it?
Oh yeah! I forgot about the fake dad dead soldier daddy post. Where OP posted a birthday announcement in the paper for all to see.
The oranges of the island are like blazing fire
Amongst the emerald boughs
And the lemons are like the paleness of a lover
Who has spent the night crying.


My soul was ripped to shreds on 10/27/14
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They can't force you into anything unless court ordered. They also have no rights to your child even if they're blood relatives.
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What makes you believe you have to do it? Have you received a subpoena?
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