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Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:20 am
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Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:55 am

People who say that are naive.

That random piece of paper affords you a lot legally.

Hell thanks to that random piece of paper I can collect my husband’s social security even though he passed away.
I have been married for a long time. It's still just a random piece of paper. It doesn't make me naive to know that it isn't important to a lot of people.
And I don’t believe that you’re married. Otherwise you’d know that there’s a hell of a lot that random piece of paper gives you.
We just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this summer.

You can have your opinion but that doesn't mean I'm not married.
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Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:20 am
Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:06 am
Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:55 am

People who say that are naive.

That random piece of paper affords you a lot legally.

Hell thanks to that random piece of paper I can collect my husband’s social security even though he passed away.
I have been married for a long time. It's still just a random piece of paper. It doesn't make me naive to know that it isn't important to a lot of people.
And I don’t believe that you’re married. Otherwise you’d know that there’s a hell of a lot that random piece of paper gives you.
We just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this summer.

You can have your opinion but that doesn't mean I'm not married.
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I wouldn't be friends after that. Low moral character is a huge turn-off.
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Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:20 am
Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:06 am
Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:55 am

People who say that are naive.

That random piece of paper affords you a lot legally.

Hell thanks to that random piece of paper I can collect my husband’s social security even though he passed away.
I have been married for a long time. It's still just a random piece of paper. It doesn't make me naive to know that it isn't important to a lot of people.
And I don’t believe that you’re married. Otherwise you’d know that there’s a hell of a lot that random piece of paper gives you.
I feel the same way and I've been married almost 16 year.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 12:32 am I don't see the problem. Not everyone cares about a random piece of paper
Get back to me when you've gone through divorce and tell me how random that paper is.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:41 am
Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:20 am
Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:06 am

I have been married for a long time. It's still just a random piece of paper. It doesn't make me naive to know that it isn't important to a lot of people.
And I don’t believe that you’re married. Otherwise you’d know that there’s a hell of a lot that random piece of paper gives you.
We just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this summer.

You can have your opinion but that doesn't mean I'm not married.

And I could lie and tell you I’m still married and we’ve been married 50. Doesn’t mean I’m telling the truth just like I don’t believe a word you’re saying.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:41 am
Anonymous 7 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:20 am
Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:06 am

I have been married for a long time. It's still just a random piece of paper. It doesn't make me naive to know that it isn't important to a lot of people.
And I don’t believe that you’re married. Otherwise you’d know that there’s a hell of a lot that random piece of paper gives you.
We just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this summer.

You can have your opinion but that doesn't mean I'm not married.

And I could lie and tell you I’m still married and we’ve been married 50. Doesn’t mean I’m telling the truth just like I don’t believe a word you’re saying.
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Not a big deal in the grand scheme of wanting to keep the SSI, especially if the partner's income cannot support the two of them and she really cannot work, but I do take issue with faking it with the family - especially if they gave large monetary gifts and other large gifts as well as contributed to the "wedding" under the premise it was a legal marriage.
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Anonymous 5 wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:37 am So the preacher just like..faked it? lol.
None of us are religious. One of her classmates "officiated."
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Murdoc's Mistress wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2019 9:04 am Not a big deal in the grand scheme of wanting to keep the SSI, especially if the partner's income cannot support the two of them and she really cannot work, but I do take issue with faking it with the family - especially if they gave large monetary gifts and other large gifts as well as contributed to the "wedding" under the premise it was a legal marriage.
That's what bothered some. It felt like a lie. An expensive lie to some. I only purchased a gift, I was pregnant at the time and didn't want to commit to being a bridesmaid while I was. However, a lot of mutual friends were in the wedding one way or another.
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