I know it's too soon to..

[Godstar]

He's about to make you eat raw egg shakes for breakfast lol.

Nooooo!

Lol

I know he is all about eating healthy and working out when he is off. I want to start that lifestyle too..

[Godstar]

Focus on you first. The rest will follow naturally, in time.

I am working on a schedule. Fitting in work, school, family activities, therapy, appointments, chiropractor, massages, working out, hot tubs, saunas, manicure, hair done, make-up -dont own any, and shopping. Plus writing and God first. Not in that order.. lol. Oh and family and friends.. so less posting.

[Anonymous 2]

Met him how? In person? Online? Your husband JUST was served. You don't have to constantly have a man to feel self worth. Seriously. Take a break. You need to get your head on straight after all of the back and forth with your husband.

Please don't drag some innocent person into a violent situation. You don't know how enraged your husband will be after her gets out. You can't expect a perfect stranger to shield you from that. That's incredibly presumptuous.

As a prior poster said, I'd also stop posting his pictures. I've already found the guy. I'd take that down now.

[EmilyH87]

GS, it's understandable that feeling safe is something you crave, but you've got a lot you've got to deal with and work through before a new relationship is anything you need to think about.

[Godstar]

Met him how? In person? Online? Your husband JUST was served. You don't have to constantly have a man to feel self worth. Seriously. Take a break. You need to get your head on straight after all of the back and forth with your husband.

Please don't drag some innocent person into a violent situation. You don't know how enraged your husband will be after her gets out. You can't expect a perfect stranger to shield you from that. That's incredibly presumptuous.

As a prior poster said, I'd also stop posting his pictures. I've already found the guy. I'd take that down now.

Books a Million. He spoke to me, and conversation started while on our laptops drinking coffee last week. I told him about my book, and he is trying to help me get funding. Actually. He helped me already..

[Inmybizz]

Yes, it is too soon.

Don’t drag this guy into a messy situation with you and your husband.. that’s how people get killed.

Don’t rely on someone else to fix your situation.

Spend time working on yourself.. getting mentally and spiritually healthy.

Settle your mind

Yes. You are right. I am being selfish. Del was served divorce papers and I hope the judge signs the next part soon!

It feels like I won't heal until next year..

I don’t think you are selfish I think you are looking for a quick fix and there isn’t one.. you have to go through the process, feel the feelings and heal.

Trust in your faith.. you will get through this.

[Inmybizz]

Yes, it is too soon.

Don’t drag this guy into a messy situation with you and your husband.. that’s how people get killed.

Don’t rely on someone else to fix your situation.

Spend time working on yourself.. getting mentally and spiritually healthy.

Settle your mind

Edit: is he aware you are posting his photo on here.. you know someone will track him down.

I thought that it was safe, and between us girls. He knows I post in support groups, that's all.

Ok.

[Bubbs]

Yes, it is too soon.

Don’t drag this guy into a messy situation with you and your husband.. that’s how people get killed.

Don’t rely on someone else to fix your situation.

Spend time working on yourself.. getting mentally and spiritually healthy.

Settle your mind

Yes. You are right. I am being selfish. Del was served divorce papers and I hope the judge signs the next part soon!

It feels like I won't heal until next year..

It’s been almost a year and I’m still not in a place that I’d let another person into my life. Focus on you, your kids and I hear the rest will come.
I didn’t listen to anyone’s advice after my 1st divorce & ran to someone that made me feel all the things. And that ended in misery. Another person can’t be the bandaid to your pain. You have to work on it, it’s hard and it sucks, but God will carry you through it.
If you ever want to chat, message me. (You found me on FB once)

[jas]

You need to walk before you run. Slow it down because you want your next relationship to be something of substance - not a rebound. There is nothing wrong with having a friend. But you need to work through everything that's happened to you first.
There's time

[Nvl0707]

Too soon! You need time to heal before even thinking about a new relationship!