People are calling me petty and jealous because I dont want the other woman in my house

[Anonymous 1]

What question?

Then answer my question if I am so wrong...I’ll wait for the spin. Also, this is the only forum in which I’m active and my lack of popularity doesn’t phase me in a bit, otherwise I’d hire behind the anon button too.

You are wrong in every way. That is a common theme for you on this website

I’m not controlling their feelings. I asked you to ask him and have him tell you. You can’t say what their relationship is like
Because I imagine it goes against what you say here.

But I am telling you as an observer of it happening that if you keep projecting your feelings that you may be the one on the outside. That’s all.

[Deleted User 172]

Get over it.
Its been years.

[madfoodie]

How old were your kids when this happened? If I'm being too nosed just say.

[CotterpinDoozer]

Your ex wasn't even invited. He asked to attend and you graciously said yes, that graciousness did not extend to his wife. If your kid wanted her there, then I'd say maybe you should have sucked it up, if they didn't want her there, then no harm no foul.

[Anonymous 5]

I wonder if the women disagreeing with you are second wives to their husbands.

[Pjmm]

I wonder if the women disagreeing with you are second wives to their husbands.

I'm not. I've never remarried. I would have left it up to ds. In this case he doesn't want the sm there so she doesn't get to be there. If he had a close relationship with her I would hate every damned moment of it- but she'd be there. In my case this particular problem never came up.

[WickedPissah]

Weird you didn't invite your ex from the get-go.

[Anonymous 1]

Weird you didn't invite your ex from the get-go.

Why is it weird? We usually do separate celebrations/parties

[WickedPissah]

Weird you didn't invite your ex from the get-go.

Why is it weird? We usually do separate celebrations/parties

It just is.

[Anonymous 1]

Weird you didn't invite your ex from the get-go.

Why is it weird? We usually do separate celebrations/parties

It just is.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with having separate things