Real friends dont let friends.... My confession
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So... You're mad at your friends because they don't do what you tell them to do?
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Why is she a slut? Is she getting paid?KendallsMom wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 2:05 am I wouldn't have a shameless slut as a friend in the first place. Cut ties with her..
I don't agree with her lifestyle but I'm not Jiminy Cricket. It's not my job to judge my friends. If she asks for advice I'll give it but if she doesn't take it I won't take it personally. I just feel I'm no-one to judge anyone.
The last time I told you what I thought, you found a way to attack me. So this time I'm just going to say I wish you the best.
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I would personally judge anyone that cheats. I don't care who they're.Pjmm wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 10:21 amWhy is she a slut? Is she getting paid?KendallsMom wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 2:05 am I wouldn't have a shameless slut as a friend in the first place. Cut ties with her..
I don't agree with her lifestyle but I'm not Jiminy Cricket. It's not my job to judge my friends. If she asks for advice I'll give it but if she doesn't take it I won't take it personally. I just feel I'm no-one to judge anyone.
You can’t control what other people do. If someone is making an effort to improve their situation, a good friend will help support them and cheer them on, but they have to want to change.
If they’re continuing to make bad decisions, and are not willing to make a change, sometimes you just have to distance yourself. Let them know you’ll still be here to help when they’re ready.
If they’re continuing to make bad decisions, and are not willing to make a change, sometimes you just have to distance yourself. Let them know you’ll still be here to help when they’re ready.
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I wouldn't like it either and I'd probably think shes a damned fool. Calling her a slut bothers me though. If she was actually prostituting sure or slept with the entire Dallas cowboys team maybe. Otherwise no I wouldn't call her that or necessarily stop being her friend. I'd say look I've given my opinion before and that's not going to change.Fullxbusymom wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:24 amI would personally judge anyone that cheats. I don't care who they're.Pjmm wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 10:21 amWhy is she a slut? Is she getting paid?KendallsMom wrote: ↑Fri Jun 14, 2019 2:05 am I wouldn't have a shameless slut as a friend in the first place. Cut ties with her..
I don't agree with her lifestyle but I'm not Jiminy Cricket. It's not my job to judge my friends. If she asks for advice I'll give it but if she doesn't take it I won't take it personally. I just feel I'm no-one to judge anyone.
You need better friends. Your criteria for friends should have moral integrity at the top and being 'fun to party with' somewhere down at the bottom.