Exactly
DNA does not make you family
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Well... she literally is your family. Whether you’re mad at her or not...
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Another episode of My family( dna or not) is full of Assholes, lol
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You called her a "dumbass bitch", tried to shut the door in her face, and basically told her you didn't give a crap that her mom died. That isn't apathy. I don't believe for a second that this is real, but if it was, you would be a complete sad jerk in this situation. Yeah, you don't have to be a part of anyones lives if you don't want to, but so easily cutting your brother out when you don't know what happened between them and acting so hostile toward your niece, who was a small child when the issue happened, is just messed up. Sounds like she is better off in her life without you.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 2:22 pmYou are confusing hated for apathy. You cant hate strangersFullxbusymom wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 2:19 pm Why the hatred? I guess i don't understand, she didn't do anything your brother did.
I didnt call her a dumb ass bitch to her face. I said that to you all. Conversation was over there was nothing more to say. I didnt cut my brother out of my life. He cut me out of his life at the same time he cut off my parents. Why would I care if her mother dies. Shes a stranger to me. Her mother was a steanger to me. I havent seen or heard from these people in 20 years except when I had a 10 sec conversation with my brother stating that our father was dying. " Dad's in the hospital and we are removing life support" brother replies "OK"....Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 6:26 pmYou called her a "dumbass bitch", tried to shut the door in her face, and basically told her you didn't give a crap that her mom died. That isn't apathy. I don't believe for a second that this is real, but if it was, you would be a complete sad jerk in this situation. Yeah, you don't have to be a part of anyones lives if you don't want to, but so easily cutting your brother out when you don't know what happened between them and acting so hostile toward your niece, who was a small child when the issue happened, is just messed up. Sounds like she is better off in her life without you.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 2:22 pmYou are confusing hated for apathy. You cant hate strangersFullxbusymom wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 2:19 pm Why the hatred? I guess i don't understand, she didn't do anything your brother did.
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You're bitter with your brother. You havn't seen your niece since she was 7. You took your bitterness out on her.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 6:58 pmI didnt call her a dumb ass bitch to her face. I said that to you all. Conversation was over there was nothing more to say. I didnt cut my brother out of my life. He cut me out of his life at the same time he cut off my parents. Why would I care if her mother dies. Shes a stranger to me. Her mother was a steanger to me. I havent seen or heard from these people in 20 years except when I had a 10 sec conversation with my brother stating that our father was dying. " Dad's in the hospital and we are removing life support" brother replies "OK"....Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 6:26 pmYou called her a "dumbass bitch", tried to shut the door in her face, and basically told her you didn't give a crap that her mom died. That isn't apathy. I don't believe for a second that this is real, but if it was, you would be a complete sad jerk in this situation. Yeah, you don't have to be a part of anyones lives if you don't want to, but so easily cutting your brother out when you don't know what happened between them and acting so hostile toward your niece, who was a small child when the issue happened, is just messed up. Sounds like she is better off in her life without you.Anonymous 1 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2019 2:22 pm
You are confusing hated for apathy. You cant hate strangers
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She may have just found out the address for your mom and was looking to get to know family. I'm sure she doesn't fully understand the circumstances of the family fallout. She was probably fed horrible lies about the family. And when you were so harsh and rude to her she went on the defense. Would it kill you to have a heart? She's not your brother.