I am not going to associate with my new SIL and my brother can not understand why

[Anonymous 4]

Medicare?

[Msprekteacher]

Have you met kettle? You are always an advocate of dis association for any reason. So where is your line? Apparently this is OPs, where is yours?

I doubt this is real but even if it is-you don't have to associate with anyone. Its a free country after all. You don't have to talk to anyone.

But if you attend family functions you do have to be cordial to her. You have to play nice. You can't be rude or completely ignore her. So if you can't play nice-don't go at all. Or you are causing family drama.

For events you throw or host-you don't have to invite her but then that means your brother or any future kids they may have would not be included either. As a family they are one social unit and you have to treat them as such.

I would either just kinda drop my brother and her completely or I would suck it up and be nice to her. Its really one or the other. You can't ignore her and treat her like crap and expect her to let you be a part of their lives and their future children's lives. No way would someone get my kids without being nice to me too.

[AllofFive19]

Well if this is her third marriage then maybe this one won't last long either.

[Anonymous 1]

Medicare?

Correct

[Anonymous 5]

'Within reason'
Hahahahah.
You don't even comprehend what pro choice means.
Why is her uterus of such concern to you, anyway?
Get a hobby!

[Anonymous 6]

Medicare?

Correct

Unless she is disabled or a senior it would actually be medicaid not Medicare.

[Anonymous 1]

Medicare?

Correct

Unless she is disabled or a senior it would actually be medicaid not Medicare.

Nope. There is no such thing as medicaid where I live. Just medicare

[wildflowers25]

If you're going troll, you really should put in some effort.

[Anonymous 7]

Medicare?

Correct

Unless she is disabled or a senior it would actually be medicaid not Medicare.

Not everyone lives in America. Medicare is the name of Australia 's universal health care system

[Pjmm]

Correct

Unless she is disabled or a senior it would actually be medicaid not Medicare.

Not everyone lives in America. Medicare is the name of Australia 's universal health care system

Which most didn't know until right this instance. I too assumed Medicaid not that I care. I personally would find her an idiot since paid for or not an abortion has to be unpleasant, the after bleeding just as much, and altogether something to be avoided. I'd also think my brother had gotten a head injury if he was dating an idiot. But assuming this is real and idiots like this do exist I'd tolerate her at family gatherings and gossip later like most families do.