Your children are 13, 9 and 9 and your boyfriend wrote this on a white board visible to your children.

[Anonymous 1]

What would be your reaction?

Boyfriend has grown children of his own.

[Olioxenfree]

They wouldn't be my boyfriend if they clearly lack any sense of judgment and what is appropriate. I would tell them if they want to continue being my boyfriend, they better start respecting my children more than that.

[Eves9]

Okay, I laughed lol

But, I would say poor sense of judgement and would have a talk with him about what's appropriate to say and joke about around the kids.

[Anonymous 2]

Im embarrassed to ask this.. but I dont get the joke. What does this mean?

[Anonymous2.0]

I would find a new boyfriend with a better sense of humor.

[mcginnisc]

He is alluding to the fact that her gift is a bra that has holes in the cups...so not appropriate for the kids to see.

Im embarrassed to ask this.. but I dont get the joke. What does this mean?

[mcginnisc]

I would not be happy with him at all.

[Smarties]

Eh, it's cute but not that funny. But I like all that sexual teasing and flirtiness so I would still like it.

Where did he write it? Is this on the refrigerator? Or somewhere more out of the way? If it weren't right in my kids' faces I dont think I'd get too worked up about it.

[Momto2boys973]

I probably wouldn’t date such an immature guy with that lack of common sense. DH and I do some kinky flirting here and there, but it’s always private.

[Traci_Momof2]

Im embarrassed to ask this.. but I dont get the joke. What does this mean?

I don't get it either honestly.