Bm is mad our family is growing.

[QuantumNursing]

I know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.

That is your families experience.

Its my experience too. Your troll story is falling apart. Stop fighting

Every child whether typical or not needs extra attention at times. Its a balancing act no matter the kids you have

[Anonymous 1]

Please tell me what extra attention she needs vs the other children.

I know that when my child with autism is having a meltdown, he requires my full attention or when my child with BPD is having a mood swing, he needs more attention. They both require more attention than my other children. That doesn't mean I ignore or neglect my other children, it simply means that I have to spread myself to the amount of attention all my children need and two of them need extra attention due to disorders and special needs.

Even normal children needs different levels of attention thean their pther sibilings

2 of our children play ice hockey that takes a lot of time and attention.

To them bm is hurt so everything i do is wrong.

[Traci_Momof2]

She's entitled to her bad feelings about the situation.

She is NOT entitled to treat you or anyone else badly because of it. She needs to find a way to grieve her situation and move on.

[Anonymous 1]

So why are you entertaining her by letting her get under your skin? I am assuming you are posting this to show how small she is, but in the same turn, you are proving that you welcome the drama because you wont let it go. Who cares if she doenst like the fact that your family is growing. Does her feelings really have any effect on your life? Out side of emotions, I cant see how it does. If you dont like the drama, then stop giving her the satisfaction of letting her get under your skin and stop worrying about how she feels about your family. You sound just as petty as you are trying to make her sound.

She doesn't get under my skin....It's rather petty to focus on us when she has her own child to focus on..

No youre right, clearly she doesnt. Pardon my ignorance.....

You're excused.

[RedBottoms]

That is your families experience.

Its my experience too. Your troll story is falling apart. Stop fighting

Every child whether typical or not needs extra attention at times. Its a balancing act no matter the kids you have

true. But OP just sat there and said that all the kids get equal attention all the time and that is not true

[Anonymous 1]

She's entitled to her bad feelings about the situation.

She is NOT entitled to treat you or anyone else badly because of it. She needs to find a way to grieve her situation and move on.

I agree!!

For her own sake at least and for her child. Sd should be able to talk about her siblings freely without walking on egg shells.

Maybe one day.

[Anonymous 14]

Are you also the sailsbury steak poster lol?

[RedBottoms]

Are you also the sailsbury steak poster lol?

It can't be the same person because this poster has a perfect life as she keeps telling us

[Anonymous 1]

Are you also the sailsbury steak poster lol?

It can't be the same person because this poster has a perfect life as she keeps telling us

My life is perfect to me.

[Anonymous 1]

Still no answer to what exactly BM is doing that is "the worst". Uh huh

I answered your question in another post.