Maybe it's time to let her go

[Anonymous 1]

It's probably just a fatty tumor, but I'll bet the thought of her being put to sleep makes you all giddy inside.

Nope I'm not evil. That's some fucked up shit to say.

Haha. Like you don't say fucked up shit every day.
You talk shit about this dog all the time.
You hate the dog. Don't pretend anything different.

[QuantumNursing]

Well, that is YOUR decision not theirs. Make sure the vet understands you want to consider all your options! I would NEVER leave that up to the vet and I would always be there to see what the options were. It could be benign or there might be something you could do for treatment. What kind of dog is yours?

This OP is not known for empathy with this dog. She would be the one advocating for euthanasia.

I think the dog had a full life. Her health issues are becoming too much.

Don't just dont . You have no concern for this dog. Just how quickly you can rid of it. You have made your dislike of this dog well known

[RealisticBeauty]

Well, that is YOUR decision not theirs. Make sure the vet understands you want to consider all your options! I would NEVER leave that up to the vet and I would always be there to see what the options were. It could be benign or there might be something you could do for treatment. What kind of dog is yours?

She's a rottweiler and I think it's time to let her go. I just need to get my SO on board with it. He hates getting rid of things even if they are falling apart.

Not sure if you meant to imply the dog is a "thing" that is "falling apart" .... He has had this dog for 14 years, and will most likely be upset either way. The dog may be in pain, and need to be put down - that may be heartbreaking for him. Or the dog may need a simple treatment and come home, and need time with him fussing over his recovering dog.

I would not assume the dog will disappear into a "recovery" home, or just no longer be a part of his life.

Of course he will be upset and I will be here to comfort him. I've been posting about my SO being a hoarder for years. He also has major anxiety among other mental issues. He literally will have a panic attack when he has to get rid of things or start a new routine so I know he will try to hold on to the dog until the very last min.

If the dog gets surgery she will need aftercare so that's why i asked about the recovery home, I dont expect her to stay there forever.

[Lotus]

no one can answer this question. you don't even know what the dogs condition is.

[RealisticBeauty]

Well, that is YOUR decision not theirs. Make sure the vet understands you want to consider all your options! I would NEVER leave that up to the vet and I would always be there to see what the options were. It could be benign or there might be something you could do for treatment. What kind of dog is yours?

She's a rottweiler and I think it's time to let her go. I just need to get my SO on board with it. He hates getting rid of things even if they are falling apart.

This is not your decision and his dog is not just something to get rid of . Its a companion,friend and a family member. JFC have some compassion. Are you sure he is the one with Aspie? Your lack of empathy for your partner is atrocious

I'm not a dog person period! get over that! His dog is not a bad dog, I don't treat her bad either. I'm just not into dogs

[MistressMonster]

She's a rottweiler and I think it's time to let her go. I just need to get my SO on board with it. He hates getting rid of things even if they are falling apart.

Not sure if you meant to imply the dog is a "thing" that is "falling apart" .... He has had this dog for 14 years, and will most likely be upset either way. The dog may be in pain, and need to be put down - that may be heartbreaking for him. Or the dog may need a simple treatment and come home, and need time with him fussing over his recovering dog.

I would not assume the dog will disappear into a "recovery" home, or just no longer be a part of his life.

Of course he will be upset and I will be here to comfort him. I've been posting about my SO being a hoarder for years. He also has major anxiety among other mental issues. He literally will have a panic attack when he has to get rid of things or start a new routine so I know he will try to hold on to the dog until the very last min.

If the dog gets surgery she will need aftercare so that's why i asked about the recovery home, I dont expect her to stay there forever.

The post at home care would be done by him or you

[QuantumNursing]

She's a rottweiler and I think it's time to let her go. I just need to get my SO on board with it. He hates getting rid of things even if they are falling apart.

This is not your decision and his dog is not just something to get rid of . Its a companion,friend and a family member. JFC have some compassion. Are you sure he is the one with Aspie? Your lack of empathy for your partner is atrocious

I'm not a dog person period! get over that! His dog is not a bad dog, I don't treat her bad either. I'm just not into dogs

You dont treat her bad? Then how do you explain insisting the dog was locked in the garage just so you could go away for the weekend....Very definition of treating a dog bad

[RealisticBeauty]

no one can answer this question. you don't even know what the dogs condition is.

true but whatever it is needs to be removed since she is picking at it so I'm assuming she will need to be put asleep while its being removed and she will need aftercare.

[Valentina327]

Well, that is YOUR decision not theirs. Make sure the vet understands you want to consider all your options! I would NEVER leave that up to the vet and I would always be there to see what the options were. It could be benign or there might be something you could do for treatment. What kind of dog is yours?

She's a rottweiler and I think it's time to let her go. I just need to get my SO on board with it. He hates getting rid of things even if they are falling apart.

WHAT is with your psychotic hatred of this dog and your obsession with waiting for her to die? What kind of a person acts like this? What is WRONG with you?

[RealisticBeauty]

Not sure if you meant to imply the dog is a "thing" that is "falling apart" .... He has had this dog for 14 years, and will most likely be upset either way. The dog may be in pain, and need to be put down - that may be heartbreaking for him. Or the dog may need a simple treatment and come home, and need time with him fussing over his recovering dog.

I would not assume the dog will disappear into a "recovery" home, or just no longer be a part of his life.

Of course he will be upset and I will be here to comfort him. I've been posting about my SO being a hoarder for years. He also has major anxiety among other mental issues. He literally will have a panic attack when he has to get rid of things or start a new routine so I know he will try to hold on to the dog until the very last min.

If the dog gets surgery she will need aftercare so that's why i asked about the recovery home, I dont expect her to stay there forever.

The post at home care would be done by him or you

That's why I'm asking about recovery centers because I'm not doing it and he won't be able to handle it.