What do you think of the viral video

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The daughter didn't seem bothered by it and she seemed to have understood the lesson. 5 miles is more than I would have been able to do but she was safe.
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Momto2boys973 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:49 pm While I agree with the dad’s punishment, I don’t agree with adding humiliation to it. How can you teach a child not to bully by humiliating them online?
I always try to be really careful not to humiliate my children even when they deserve a scolding. I take them aside and privately do whatever needs to be done, but never in front of others, not even a brother. Humiliation doesn’t teach anything, it just hurts.
She's 5 though. How would she know? At least I hope a 5 year old isn't surfing YouTube.
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I applaud a parent taking definitive action to stop reoccurring bad behavior.
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Momto2boys973 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:54 pm I think making her walk was a good punishment. Natural consequences.
But I agree with you that adding humiliation to it was uncalled for. I get the whole idea of her experiencing the humiliation she does to others, but I don’t think that’s the best way to teach her empathy.
pinkbutterfly66 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:39 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:36 pm Giving your child consequences for her actions is bully behavior?

There are other types of consequences that would be perfectly acceptable instead of this bullying tactic. Not only does he force his kid to walk the five miles, he takes a video and posts it to youtube to humiliate her. You can discipline a child without bullying.
Agreed. Discipline but dont humiliate. Thats not how I do things either.
Being a kid is hard enough without being humiliated by your own parents.
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I think he did a great job
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It wasn't 5 miles to the school.

Do your homework before posting.
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pinkbutterfly66 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:39 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:36 pm Giving your child consequences for her actions is bully behavior?
pinkbutterfly66 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 11:57 am I think his parenting style is probably why his kid is a bully.
There are other types of consequences that would be perfectly acceptable instead of this bullying tactic. Not only does he force his kid to walk the five miles, he takes a video and posts it to youtube to humiliate her. You can discipline a child without bullying.
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Victoriousmom wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 6:34 pm It wasn't 5 miles to the school.

Do your homework before posting.
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Dylexsmommy wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 5:48 pm
Momto2boys973 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:54 pm I think making her walk was a good punishment. Natural consequences.
But I agree with you that adding humiliation to it was uncalled for. I get the whole idea of her experiencing the humiliation she does to others, but I don’t think that’s the best way to teach her empathy.
pinkbutterfly66 wrote: Thu Dec 06, 2018 12:39 pm
There are other types of consequences that would be perfectly acceptable instead of this bullying tactic. Not only does he force his kid to walk the five miles, he takes a video and posts it to youtube to humiliate her. You can discipline a child without bullying.
Agreed. Discipline but dont humiliate. Thats not how I do things either.
Being a kid is hard enough without being humiliated by your own parents.
Yep. I agree.
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